I know a 33 y/o guy who loves attracting attention and loves popularity. Like he will *act* really goofy in front of people just to get attention or chat up out of the blue with a woman walking her dog. This makes me feel uneasy. Coz I am the opposite. Why does he act this way?
Is it an insecure childhood? Or is it that they are used to too much attention in their childhood?
2007-06-15 03:40:23 · 4 answers · asked by ? 6 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
In our competitive society, unless you are really talented or have a special quality, attracting attention could cause problems. Problems so sever the attention seeker will end up as a Loser. It all has to do with immaturity. Little children cry out all of the time for attention.
2007-06-15 03:50:23 · answer #1 · answered by mac 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe during his childhood he found out that acting the clown gor him attention; now he doesn't know any other way to get attention. Why does it make you feel uneasy though?
2007-06-15 03:50:39 · answer #2 · answered by Mike T 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is difficult to analyze your friend with just one glimpse into his personality.
Usually, a person's childhood makes a lasting impression on their behavior. Sometimes, there is one traumatic event.
You know him better than anyone. Just ask why he acts the way he does.
2007-06-15 03:52:42 · answer #3 · answered by ken erestu 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-06-18 11:21:14 · answer #4 · answered by naturalchelsea 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋