Do I have some sort of psychological problem?

Question

I am not very self-confident and I care about others' opinion very much.
I was always feeling that I said something wrong after I had a talk with others.
How should I do?

Answer 1

I have an eating disorder and experience the smae sort of thing as you. I would reccomend you trying to talk to a good friend or a parent about it. Family and friends can really help (:

Answer 2

Look at it as though you are a young plant.A young plant needs certain things to become a tall,strong plant.
1. It needs sun, which is similar to the warmth you feel when you feel confidence, self respect, and love toward others, but with that, the strength to disagree, or detach from those who might harm you(mentally, spiritually, or emotionally).Start by telling your self only good things!(ie., I am strong,my point of view is important, etc.) NEVER down yourself! Remember that everyone makes mistakes, and everyone doubts themselves from time to time!(we are ALL human!)
2. It needs water. Appreciate the good things that happen to you, or that you make happen! (and notice people who do good too!) Focus on the positive! (like positive energy breeding more pos. energy, if you will) Say someone lets you in a long line of traffic, or you get an "A" on a report card, or someone smiles and tells you to have a great day. notice all of them!Soak it in!
3. Earth! Which relates to the things we surround ourselves with, that make our "worlds" more comfortable places to live in. That can be your room, your home, a lake where you love to go to reflect, or your workplace. You surround yourself with things that make you feel happy. We all need to feel like we have a place we can unwind, and relax. I believe that our environment has a lot of effect on our attitudes.
There's a saying that goes, " Do what you love, and you'll find someone who loves the same thing.Don't look for love,beg for love, or suffer for love. Just live!"

Answer 3

It sounds like you have low self esteem and a problem with self confidence. Try to remember what's really important to you in this life. It's a normal thing to care about what others think of us but I think if you put it into perspective it will help. Care about what those close to you think, but as for others that you encounter daily, let it go. Most people you encounter you will never see again so who cares what they think. Focus on your family and friends. Be yourself and people will usually respond well to you. You may need to see a counselor to help you work through some of these issues. It really does help to have a neutral person to talk to about your feelings.

Answer 4

you have some self-esteem problems, and maybe social anxiety. think of it as a personality problem, not a psychological problem. It is possible that you fall into the category of "people pleaser."

A therapist might be able to help by given you options and exercises for the situations where you are un-confidant.

the only real problem with being a people pleaser is that you may be ignoring what would please YOU.

Answer 5

There's nothing wrong with you.

You are just reviewing the questions and answers after the exam.

Try not to be sad if you sat badly for your exam.

What over is over, look into the future with better result.