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I don't get my friend that I texted that wont talk to me nemore, I mean he takes some of the things I say that he never said b4 like when people ask him why he wont quite his job he says "cuz he likes the people" after me just like when I mention my views of abortions , he starts talking alot about his views of abortions, and then I wrote him a letter about him holdin grudges on here and he went to myspace and put "forgive and forget, Life is too short to hold grudges , people you have now may not be here 2maro" then I call him and he hangs up, and I text him one last time he kept calling me pathetic through the text , which he wouldnt write back b4 at all, I dont get it, you think hes about to crack and be my friend again? if not can ne1 tell me what u think he is doing? Cuz I have no clue, but I really miss being his friend

I mean I kinda pushed him I guess I came on too strong to begin with , cuz I thought we were more of friends to begin with, and its been about half a year since he's talked to me, but I hear about people becoming friends again after like 2 years so I keep hoping, and the thing on abortions is he has the same view I meant that if I said something, then he started saying it too, even though we're appearantly not friends nemore, he stills does some things that makes me think he wants to be friends again, but maybe Ive been too pushy for him to forgive me for being pushy? but I cant lose him cuz hes the only person I could say things to that wont make fun of me, and he actually listened he never just tuned me out like everyone else

Answer 1

Personally, I think that this so called "friend" is insensitive, and two faced. If he says one thing to you, then says the exact opposite to others, how could you even trust him? I am sorry that you are hurt over this friend. However, after 6 months of him rejecting you, and your attempts to reach out to him are ignored, or rudely rebuffed, I say let him be. You sound like a good person, but we all do not always remain friends.Sometimes, we just grow apart, and there is nothing that we can do. He will be the one loosing a good friend, not you. I am sure that in time you will make other friends. In my opinion, he was not a real friend in the true sense of the word.

Answer 2

He disrespects you because you have difference views on abortion. Not everyone can discuss that subject without getting passionate about how they believe. Best to let him go.

Answer 3

He has seriois issues, just give him time to work it aout and maybe things will return to normal again.Don't push him, you might just drive him further away

Answer 4

so the two of you had a blue? let it rest stop texting him.
get on with life.

Answer 5

ask him whats going on. keeop on him until you have a definite friend or no friend. i think he might be your friend again