2007-06-14 22:49:52 · 15 answers · asked by lucy a 1 in Politics & Government ➔ Law & Ethics
Time to dump him and find someone else.
2007-06-14 22:56:15 · answer #1 · answered by dh1977 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
babe dont mean2be rude but u guys may just need a better understanding between each other..i mean u may hurt him without realising it but he may do the same without realising it..it happens all the time in relationships..if he loves u he would try his ars3 off to never make u cry r hurt u..but sometimes its a persons nature to act a certain way without realising the affects it has on others..i do it myself 2b honest..
just talk2each other properly and tell him how u feel what he does that upsets u..but ask him what upsets him2..u dont want 2 play a blame game but talk and share to work through problems together..
if it doesnt work after a while like this an he still hurts u i think u need2move on...u should never be in a relationship where one person values or wants the realtionship more then the other because its not healthy and is an unfair imbalanace...
a relationship can only blossom and grow if both people want it just as much as each other...a relationship is 2-way thing not a one man band..
if u need someone 2talk 2 or just a shoulder 2 lean on, for advice or just someone 2 listen..i'm here ok..
good luck..
2007-06-14 23:37:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
When he does what he does to hurt you, may be he has been hurt by you unknowingly {this may surprise you}. Then he attacks you in the way he does {verbally I assume}. If he is with you, he must care about you and he may not necessary show his feelings during this period. Ultimately he must care about you! Try to understand where he is coming from, and your relationship will blossom. Going with options like "dump him" may be silly as you maybe very close to magnificent relationship. Always, we think that the other party is wrong, but the right answer lies somewhere in middle. The people who suggest getting rid of him, would of had several bad relationships or may be going through it. At times yes, eliminate the person causing the stress, and like all success we usually very close to success before we "throw the towel".
2007-06-14 22:57:06 · answer #3 · answered by Zee99 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
the area is that the relationship did not fairly end, it basically form of ran out of gas. That lack of closure is what's making you uncomfortable and now each and every time he is going out on a date with some different person, it feels like he's dishonest on you. besides, it fairly feels like he's optimum you on, because he isn't any longer making a clean wreck of it both and he's stretching issues out. (He sounds slightly possessive of you, easily. do not confuse that wit love.) the problem he's were given you in is one the position he's permitted as a lot as now and also you're in an emotional protecting progression until eventually he comes again. What you want to do is make a clean wreck. tell him "we are executed." tell him that you may want to be pals, yet no longer some thing extra. pals in ordinary words. once you try this, you'll sense extra positive. you'll sense like the financial ruin has ended and a clean you'll commence. do not beat your self up over this, although. that's no longer your fault. Make a clean wreck and pass on. some all and multiple is meant to be pals yet no longer fans.
2016-11-24 20:59:36 · answer #4 · answered by wengreen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
then I'm sorry to say he isn't the right guy for you .
love has to be mutual and for a relationship to work you both have to feel the same.
We cant stay madly in love every moment of every day and there may be days when you don't actually like the person you are with but the underlying love and mutual respect and friendship you should have for one another will see you through.
You both have to care when the other is hurt.
2007-06-14 22:59:32 · answer #5 · answered by blazing_staruk 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Do you enjoy being emotional abused and neglected? If not, why do you want to stay in a toxic relationship where your needs are not being met? Get into counseling to find out why and whether it is you love him, or it just desperation and fear of abandonment.
2007-06-15 00:12:55 · answer #6 · answered by bottleblondemama 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i know, and is so hard to giving him up, love is all about silly and hurt, think twice if u still want him, u will only get hurt honey.
2007-06-15 00:38:24 · answer #7 · answered by moonrider 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ditch the loser and go out and have fun. Believe me, there are a lot of more fish in the sea.
2007-06-14 23:51:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wrong category lucy--but bin the guy anyway, find someone who CARES about you the way YOU care about them!!
2007-06-14 23:10:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I agree with dh1977 in that it is time to dump him. Remember no man or woman is worth your tears, and the one who is, won't make you cry.
2007-06-14 22:58:05 · answer #10 · answered by Ladyfromdrum 5 · 3⤊ 1⤋