If some one says something nasty to one of my friends/family I get really angry and I really feel for them.
If someone says something nasty to me, and I confide in them coz I'm really upset, people just say "oh well never mind" or "oh dear." I dont feel like they really care.
I think this is because I'm booksmart but I have no common sense and I get things muddled up and often say silly things, so they think i'm a kid and treat me as a joke. I don't understand basic things sometimes and i'm worried people see me as a joke.
Do you think this is why people don't really bother with me when i'm upset?
2007-06-14 22:00:51 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
stop whining
2007-06-14 22:03:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋
Its all on how u look at things. May be u r taking things quite seriously than wht it seems to be. Also, u need to take of the negative attitude of looking at things, u r worried when u think that others are seeing u as a joke, i.e it is what and how u think, may be not what others actually mean.
2007-06-14 22:24:50 · answer #2 · answered by itDumbo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think people actually love you to bits, its easy to tell you are a decent person how you write, and they probably think you are a lot stronger than the visible signs you show. Its harder for people to accept the stronger members in a family being upset, so they transfer issues, and make someone elses problems worse than yours. Its a good family tactic to keep you from being the family idiot.
2007-06-14 22:09:32 · answer #3 · answered by Jim 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You maybe book smart hon, but are you logical and is your reasoning on the same level as everyone else? You see there are reasonable people and there are drama queens who blow everything out of proportion! It's not there fault, it's just that they do not see the same event, as everyone else! You do not mention your age but it's generally people in their early teens who are prone to it. Throwing tantrums is a similar trait put down to earl teens. Have a good day.
2007-06-14 22:16:36 · answer #4 · answered by wheeliebin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's part of life I feel for you cause it's the same way with me some people just don't care about anyone else and just want someone to feel sorry for them without giving any sympathy back
2007-06-14 22:09:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe they are just self centered. And are to busy thinking of themselves to bother to think of someone else.
2007-06-14 22:07:17 · answer #6 · answered by Sunset 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If i knew you youd know how protective i am over friends family and gfs. All i can offer you is internet protection from me!! Its all i can do. oh well.
2007-06-14 22:35:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are young, not a joke. This will pass with age.
2007-06-14 22:19:12 · answer #8 · answered by scott p 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We don't care to read that long drawn out stuff you wrote, but that doesn't mean we don't care about you. You odviously just bore people cause you have a long and drawn out personality
2007-06-14 22:04:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
a lot of people are like that ,just don't let people hurt you , just tell them
2007-06-14 22:05:58 · answer #10 · answered by Flowers 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
may b u dont care when other's r upset.
2007-06-14 22:04:54 · answer #11 · answered by ohohohohoh 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋