2007-06-14 16:22:05 · 64 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No...You should just tell her to lose the extra 160-180lbs that are you...That'd be a good diet, huh?
2007-06-14 16:27:01 · answer #1 · answered by Jessica 6 · 5⤊ 0⤋
no, Just because your wife gains 10 pounds that is no reason for a divorce. If you truly loved your wife you wouldn't even be asking this question. I am sure there are things she really doesn't like about you either but something as petty as 10 pounds is not a reason for divorce.
10 pounds is not letting herself go, maybe 100 pounds and you could say she was letting herself go , but these are still not reasons for divorce , she may be depressed because you think like this .
2007-06-14 17:05:15 · answer #2 · answered by diane33michigan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Today she gained 10 pounds, tomorrow 20 pounds by year end 120pounds. Imagine in next five years when you make love at position she's on top...you might be killed like you have an accident with steamroller man..!!! Just a joke...
The real answer is " Dont divorce her coz of her weight or size". Think how much she has sacrifies for you. Think back how she has console you when you are fired from your job. Think the lovely days when you were with her in your honeymoon. The real man is the man who loves her wife for whatever it takes. If you have children, think about their future before you decide for divorce. Do not make decision when you are at emotional state. If you have heated argument and quarrel with her just leave her alone for sometime. You may go out and have a drink with your friends. But do not take alcohols.
2007-06-14 16:51:52 · answer #3 · answered by azman aziz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that your wife should know that you have asked such a question. This is very rude and insensative. I can only hope that when you become older your hair falls out, you put on extra pounds, have false teeth, and all your wife has is an extra 10 pounds. Maybe she will divorce you
2007-06-19 09:25:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Should she divorce you if you gained 10 pounds? Should she divorce you if you got disfigured in an accident? Should she divorce you because you go through a rough time if your life? You might try making her feel special and loved just as she is. Maybe if she knows how it feels to have her husband love her, she will be able to love herself. I'm pretty sure that your marriage vows didn't say "for better or worse, UNLESS YOU GAIN WEIGHT"! YOU COULD ALWAYS GO TO HOLLYWOOD AND MARRY NICOLE RITCHIE!!!
2007-06-14 16:31:40 · answer #5 · answered by Amber 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
if you loved her it shouldn't matter what she looked like. Would you want her to leave you if you gained 10 pounds? Maybe she didn't let herself go. May be you were an *** and said something to her that made her self confidence go down and the only way she can deal with it is eat.
2007-06-14 17:13:50 · answer #6 · answered by msprettyfoot 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you married this woman for her flesh, then I suggest you do let her go, for if you dared to marry her for herself, then you would have been gifted the honor and privilidge of loving her and growing old with her, then she would have wrinkles and maybe even a few medical issues too, so if 10 lbs is an issue to you now, do her a favor and help her lose about 210 lbs , help her lose you....
I must be cruel in order to be kind, she did not leave you when you lost an eye,, if you ask what eye, I say the one that allowed you to see her as beautiful inside and someone you wanted to love enough to marry... I pray she does not see this question and realize its her Knight in shinning Armor saying this.... if you want a good answer, remove this question now before she does see it...
2007-06-14 16:36:27 · answer #7 · answered by Daddy in a box :) 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I really don't see a difference made by 10 pounds either if they are slender or really fat.Are you really that shallow? or stupid do you honestly believe a couple or married couple stays the same weight? also you know if you divorce her over that it will cost you in the long run why the hell did you marry her. seriously if it bothers you that much how about you encourage her that you both together start eating differently and maybey exercise together be it walking or jogging or running spending time like that will either strengthen your marriage or help her see you for the shallow idiot you are.
2007-06-14 16:32:18 · answer #8 · answered by tuco 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Dude, for better or for worse, through thick and thin, or something like that. Point is, you married her because you love her (?), so you should not divorce her because she gained a few extra pounds. Come on, that's just wrong.
2007-06-14 16:29:07 · answer #9 · answered by tigergirl 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No, but she should divorce you for being a jerk. You should love someone regardless of 10 pounds. Who are you? One of the World's Most Beautiful People?
2007-06-14 16:25:28 · answer #10 · answered by Answer Girl 2007 5 · 6⤊ 0⤋
If your wife hasn't committed adultery, you can't divorce her. God says you can only divorce if your spouse commits adultery.
You didn't mean your wedding vows when you said them? Remember they go like this: for better or worse, in sickness and in health, for richer or poorer until death do us part.
News flash you are both going to change quicker than you know, gravity and age will take over and you will both start to wrinkle and get gray hair and possibly false teeth and you may lose your hair and your belly will probably end up over your belt and when you look in the mirror one day you will say "Dad?"
If you think a woman keeps her youthful figure all her life or that you keep yours you are living in a fantasy world. It isn't what you both look like, it's who you are that counts.
2007-06-14 16:37:02 · answer #11 · answered by Sweet Suzy 777! 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋