My girlfriend and I had a problem about 4 months ago with me finding out about her trying to talk to another person. Every since then Ive been trying to learn to trust her again but today I just saw some thing that reminded me to much of the past so I brought it up again. Was I wrong??
2007-06-14 16:04:52 · 11 answers · asked by smith2cool06 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Hey you're only human and learning to trust someone again after they have broken your trust is hard. If she's showing signs of doing the same things again I would confront her strait up and tell her that you're trying to trust her again but when she does things like that it's hard. See what happens. Just a suggestion. Good Luck I hope everything turns out ok.
2007-06-21 16:37:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you are not wrong...and just to let you know from experience...people do not change...period!! They may pretend for a while, but they always go back to their usual selves...trust me on this.
I guess the only "real" way a person can "really, I mean really" change...is through Salvation of some sort of faith.
2007-06-21 15:29:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please stop, because no one is going to admit when there wrong, honestly. Do not show you weakness, just let her do her thing, while you find a new hobbie. Not, someone else!!! Next, person filled with more drama, and on top of that your have to figure that person out. Just back up, keep it moving!!!
2007-06-22 02:56:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Great question i tell you what the past is the past some females are emotional and think by you bringing it up means you haven't got over it meaning you haven't forgot and it still runs through your brain.
2007-06-21 11:42:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say that is just throwing it in her face but I do the same thing. It is probably wrong but that is the way I am and I can not change.
2007-06-14 16:20:59 · answer #5 · answered by luciousgreeneyedlady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to tell her how you feel ,but don't throw her past back at her. When you feel that she is behaving the same aas before just tell her about the present actions an let the past alone.
2007-06-19 09:40:06 · answer #6 · answered by Tivas Tivas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you were wrong you should try and forget the past especially if you love her. if you have such a big problem with it let she know how you feel about it or if thats not working i suggest that the both of you seek concelling.
2007-06-22 03:30:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's pretty sad when your girlfriend can't talk to someone else. You a very insecure and need to findout why. If your girl friend is a flirt dump her.
2007-06-22 02:36:46 · answer #8 · answered by Tim M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why bring up the past you have gone bck with her and you are now seeing changes don't happen if she cared for you she would never have done this in the first place. so that is your ansewr. i would just write her off and get moving on.
2007-06-18 18:20:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her. Good communication is very important in any relationship. Ask her in a way that is non-judgmental, not threatening, and let her know that she is important to you and that's why this concerns you.
2007-06-19 07:29:10 · answer #10 · answered by leslie b 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋