2007-06-14 15:48:06 · 11 answers · asked by bbqueen1973 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It's his problem and not yours. He will adjust in time.
2007-06-14 15:53:39 · answer #1 · answered by Krinta 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well divorce is hard no matter who you are .I have been thinking about one myself .But a person can only take so much also .If it was me and I had no kids and a job I would just leave the home live else where .If you have kids then he moves not you .I would get alot of people that can support me and go through with it .No matter what he does or says he can not stop this.He may even love you still.Just a thought .God Bless!
2007-06-14 23:02:34 · answer #2 · answered by purpal2002002 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he bother you so much then how about tell him you will take restraining order over him.
Getting divorce is the final decision between you both, and he agree to sign that divorce paper, so he must accept that no matter he like it or not.
2007-06-15 01:14:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not your responsibility to ensure your spouse copes and accepts your divorce. I understand you must care for him on some level and want him to be okay. In time he will be. Good luck!
2007-06-15 00:44:09 · answer #4 · answered by treasuredwife69 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dont have to. Ignore him. Avoid him. Dont go near him etc.
If you have kids together, then meet him at public places to exchange the kids, and then kid the heck out of dodge.
Dont let him in your home, dont do family things together etc.
You are the master of your own life--take control.
You get what you allow. If you really don't want it--then dont allow it.
2007-06-14 22:53:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go on with whatever you'd decided to do for your life. He's going to have to except the situation eventually if you are not giving him mixed messages.
2007-06-15 02:02:28 · answer #6 · answered by msthinkpositive 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your getting divorced, who cares if has a problem accepting it....Thats his problem...
2007-06-15 00:54:36 · answer #7 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once he gets a taste of freedom he will be fine.
2007-06-14 23:02:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to make it clear to him that there is NO chance of reconciliation. If he can hold onto ANY hope at all, he will.
2007-06-14 22:53:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He will have no choice when it is final....
2007-06-14 22:51:07 · answer #10 · answered by boomquisha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋