I think my husband is cheating but when i confront him i believe he's lying?

Answer 1

I used to be a big cad so I know some of the tricks.
#1 is , is he freshly bathed when he shouldn't be?
Like coming in from being away from the house for an afternoon or a night out? Check his car for an earring or something that isn't yours. Remember his stories very carefully, because he won't.There are also some standard things to think about. Is he taking new interest in his appearence--new clothes,working out, shaving more often. What about sex? Does he know any new tricks in bed?
Or suddenly not interested in sex? Is he now more affectionate or less affectionate? Any change at all can be a "tell". Keep your eyes and ears open and you'll have your answer.

Answer 2

That is hard. I've been there and done that...meaning that when I confronted my ex, he lied, and in my heart of hearts I knew he was lying. I still did what I had to do to maintain my sanity. You need to understand when a man is busted he will lie. It's the 1st reaction. Also, you need to follow your instinct. What do you believe? If you don't trust them and you believe he is lying the situation will never be better. Move on. At least get some space between you to figure out if you want this kind of relationship.

Plus, a little proof never hurt. You may need to start looking for proof if you need some piece of mind.

Good Luck.

Answer 3

You really didn't elaborate on what makes you think he's lying. Here's some information from a male. I for one have never cheated and I never will. If I have that much disrespect for my wife then I shouldn't be with her. So if you have that much distrust in your husband you shouldn't be with him. What has he done does he always keep his cell phone near him? Is he deleting cookies and Internet history from his computer? Maybe he's in a rut right now. Instead of assuming he's cheating why not see if maybe there's something wrong. Mabye he's not happy with the marriage anymore but doesn't know how to say it.

Answer 4

dont confront him as if he knows your suspicious he will be more careful. i found out mine was cheating at easter,the thought was in my mind for some weeks,but i didnt let him know that. all the time i was cheaking things out,like his phone and seeing what he had been on on the net. watching his behaviour. write the phone numbers down as the ones he has in his phone under a males name,could actually be a female and he will want you to think its one of his freinds.if you still feel the same after doing all of that, tell him your leaving. if he is seeing someone else,the chances are that he wont mind you going and will not pursuade you to stay. then hes not worth knowing. ask yourself this question, do you want to live every day with someone you think is lying to you. noone gets respect if you dont respect yourself. you need to be tough. good luck with what ever you decide,i know its not easy,but my husband now knows where he stands with me. because i have learned that if i dont get treated the way i want to be treated then i would rather be on my own.

Answer 5

If your gut instinct is telling you he is cheating then you are probably right. Go with your gut instinct.
Unless you have concrete proof he will obviously deny it.
Dig deep and find your self respect and dignity and get him out of your life. Chances are he will do it again and be even more careful next time.
Life is to short, don't waste it by being unhappy and with someone who obviously doesn't appreciate you.

Answer 6

This is a horrible place to be. Your instinct is probably right but somehow you need proof. Is there anyone you can turn to for help....a friend? It is the emotional and mental betrayal exposed in someone who you put trust which is hurtful at the highest level. It is possible to forgive if you know the truth but no so if he lies.

Answer 7

If you think he's cheating, chances are, he is and you need to prove it, because he's never going to admit to it. You will need to show him proof, and he's still going to have some type of explanation to keep him from looking guilty. That's just the way guys are if this isn't obvious.

Answer 8

You just thought your husband is cheating? dont confront your husband without any valid evidence or never been caught him on act coz he will just deny it.

Answer 9

Have a mature conversation with your husband and if hes lying and if he is slap him and say we are over. Trust me i've been through this before im experianced.

Answer 10

I think people are always right when they think someone is cheating...of course the person is going to lie! They are already doing something bad, they are not all of a sudden going to be honest....