Is it so hard for men to tell the one theyre with if & when they look at other women?

Question

Is it so hard for men to tell the one theyre with if & when they look at other women?
It seems to me that men (husbands or boyfriends) have a hard time telling the truth or being descriptive if they see another hot chick. I'm pretty sure that when they are with just their guy friends they have no problem making remarks about other women. Why can’t they just be honest? Lies are much worse than a few moments of a hurt ego.

Answer 1

I agree about lying, but men don't want there girlfriend/wife to know they look at other women. However, if the relationship is truely secure, what's wrong with looking? My husband and I have been married for 7 years, and together for 10. I know my husband would never cheat on me, and he knows the same for me. So, when I see a hot chick that I know he would appreciate, I point her out to him. But at the end of the day, he's coming home with me. While he doesn't point out hot guys for me to look at, he certainly isn't going to get angry at me if I'm admiring another hot bod. The important thing is that he lets you know that you're the only person/body that he wants to look at forever.

Answer 2

Spouses and GF's get very nasty when guy's eyes rome. If you are faithful (Just looking). Why indicate that there is a hottie in the area. Don't women ever look at a nice looking butt in jeans when the stud walks by?

Answer 3

What's the point in hurting your feelings or ego? They are only looking and if your man is going home with you, there is really no need to know what they think of other women.

Answer 4

It's an unwritten rule. Don't rock the boat! No woman on earth wants to hear how good or hot another woman is. Especially coming out of their boyfriends or husbands mouth. Why would any woman want to hear that? lol.

Answer 5

Kristen H. Sweetie,for those who do I believe it is because deep inside men are prewired to be gentleman, even if they do not let it show ! When people are married they are supposed to have blinders on so they only have desires for their other half !For boyfriends and girlfriends that could be a danger sign that they are not ready to settle down.

Answer 6

What does it matter if they are looking or commenting? You can't control what he's going to do when he's with his buddies. Just be sure that they are acting like children and be happy you don't have to be there to be embarrassed for them!! Otherwise, he comes home to you and respects you enough not to act that way in front of you. Don't sweat the small stuff OR the stuff you have no control over; you'll be happier.

Answer 7

Only young immature men will not admit doing that and only young immature women will get upset at their bf for having a peak at other women.

Answer 8

It's because we are scared to death of our girlfriend/wife being ticked at us. I do things around my guy friends that i dont do around girls. I cuss around my friends but not around women. If i saw a girl walking down the street that was hot i would probably say something to my friends, because if i dont then they will. But if im around my girlfriend then i wouldn't just because i dont want her to get uncomfortable or angry.

Answer 9

I think if your with your BF or someone that your suppose to be involved with; they chick out another chick when your with them DUMP THEM, THERE NO GOOD; THEY WILL ALWAYS DO THAT RUDE HABIT FOREVER! TRUST ME , I KNOW, save your self a lot of heart ache!

Answer 10

This is what makes us men. We want to bone every woman on the planet...except the ugly ones.