How easily do you deal with confrontation?

It rather depends on who it is with and over what! But, mostly I have a 5 minute fight rule and then I walk away. All fighting is about is making each other feel stupid, ugly and awful.......If you can't do that in five minutes. -- you are an amateur and I am not sticking around. lol

Usually I just stand there and take it ....... and usually I just walk away when they are done..........why bother to retaliate and let them think they have any source of power over me or my feelings?

2007-06-14 13:32:03 · answer #1 · answered by missellie 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋

Why is tlevesque going to beat you up? Start a journal . Memo all the things that are unreasonalbe...also keep track of how good you are. Remember, she's good at competing, you arn't, so you need "I'm good" attributes. At the end of the week, go home, and review the occurances and your accomplishments. Here at home, you'll have more peace and can judge wheather you're being overly sensitive, or it's a real complaint that is effecting your work. Set an appointment with your boss. Sit down with your boss and discuss how this is effecting your work. Also, focus on how good you are at your job, and you're only mentioning this because you want to perform at your best, and her attitude is holding you back. Your boss may have an immediate solution or not. They may even have the three of you talk together. Remember communication is good, if you're pre-paird with stuff from your journal. If nothings acomplisht, then continue the journal and within a week or two set up another appointment with your boss and the human resources personell. Here you may even suggest a lateral transfer to get away from her, since you've been trying so hard.

2016-04-01 08:15:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋

Very easily, I confront back.

2007-06-14 14:05:06 · answer #3 · answered by ♣Hey jude♣ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋

Cinch! I'm very bullish when it comes to that, but it also depends on what the topic is all about. Some people confront others with the pettiest things and if it's on that level, I just let them yak.

2007-06-14 13:29:59 · answer #4 · answered by raebert s 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋

I've definetely gotten better at it - especially lately. I normally don't like confrontation but sometimes it can't be avoided and once its over, its a big weight lifted off your shoulders....

2007-06-14 13:28:11 · answer #5 · answered by Jeannie ® 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋

Very easily-I take it head on and go toe to toe. I can be either nice or not, depending on the other person.

2007-06-14 13:27:10 · answer #6 · answered by Kiss My Shaz 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋

Why are you going to confront me!!!

2007-06-14 13:36:59 · answer #7 · answered by Zippy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋

Very easily... I actually enjoy it. I have no problems speaking my mind.

2007-06-14 13:29:15 · answer #8 · answered by Hutch 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋

very easily. if the person gets loud with me, i get very low-key and quiet. most ppl will hang themselves if you give them enough rope.

2007-06-14 13:36:40 · answer #9 · answered by pirate00girl 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋

I usually just deal with it as aggressively as possible

2007-06-14 13:28:07 · answer #10 · answered by cptndaveahoe 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋

How easily do you deal with confrontation?

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