I know a few women who think they can do whatever they want and not have to respect their husband while visiting their parents because they think that their man would never discipline in front of them. It's sad that some women have to have the threat of punishment to be obedient to their husbands, but I guess that is the way people are sometimes. Ofcourse, I knew one woman who thought that she was 'free to do whatever' at her parent's house and started being a brat to her husband and he spanked her in front of her parents which really shocked her. He had called her dad up ahead of time and asked permission to discipline her if she got out of line and he was fine with it. However, many parents aren't like that because they want to be the only one who can discipline her. Ofcourse, men do have the option of taking her to a bedroom and closing the door and discipline her in private and can always give her 'the look' to straighten her out if her family is present. What do you guys think?
2007-06-14 13:18:28 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
I don't think it's OK to "discipline" a wife where ever they are.
2007-06-14 13:21:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 6⤋
According to Miss Emily Post's excellent Guide to Modern Etiquette: "Should a husband feel, while paying a conjugal visit to his wife's parents, that his spouse is in need of physical discipline, it is courteous first to offer her parents the option of chastising their daughter. Only if they decline should he then proceed to administer corporal punishment."
"If it is decided that the wife deserves to be punished by one or both parents as well as by her husband, the parent or parents should be accorded the privilege of spanking first."
2007-06-17 05:00:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sandstorm, while I live in a domestic discipline relationship, and have no qualms about spanking my roommate or others that ask for my guidance, I can never quite fathom what motivates you to post these outlandish questions that will fire up the masses. While you seem to have an obsession with domestic discipline, you either have no idea what it's truly about, or have been burned by it in the past, and post these questions as some kind of sick commentary. I don't know, and I don't really care. I just wish that you'd stop painting my lifestyle choices in such an unfavorable light. We have a hard enough time as it is trying to find acceptance.
2007-06-14 14:33:51 · answer #3 · answered by baka_otaku30 5 · 5⤊ 4⤋
nicely you need to be greater particular on what style of self-discipline. i've got confidence the appropriate component for the guy to do in this difficulty is pull the lady aside and clarify to her that her habit isn't suited. and that i ought to assert a woman ought to on no account ought to obey her husband. this is the guy rationalization why i left my kin with the aid of fact they have been attempting to marry me off to a muslim guy and all muslim adult adult males want is for females to obey them.
2016-12-13 03:09:21 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chauvanist.....Shut Up, maybe someone needs to beat the hell out of you and see how you like to be 'punished'. Oh, and since I am a woman, and obviously less important and lower than you, should I address you as "Sir" ? Maybe men like you prefer to be called "Master" though don't they?
2007-06-15 10:14:17 · answer #5 · answered by Senator D*L*P™ 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you married a full-grown woman, you shouldn't have to discipline her. You would have to discipline a child, which is what your people like to hook up with older men for "marriage". I think your kind likes to marry little kids because that's the only kind of women you can control.
Freaks.
2007-06-14 14:24:50 · answer #6 · answered by kitten lover3 7 · 6⤊ 3⤋
If the husband wants the respect of the in-laws, he should respect their child.
2007-06-17 19:01:13 · answer #7 · answered by Fuzzy Wuzzy 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well that's why there has 2 be communication in between them , other wise they will disrespect one another and that would be ashamed. because of both being adults.
2007-06-15 19:43:58 · answer #8 · answered by <3♥Judy♥<3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course it not ok! One adult should not have to discipline another.Question what is your definition of a spanking? And discipline?
2007-06-14 18:30:45 · answer #9 · answered by ♥Kimchi♥ 4 · 2⤊ 3⤋
How sad and "cowardly" it is when a man bullies a woman, it is men like that, that, would run away like a little, scared baby, if someone, there own size, or sex were going to "discipline" them, for their "cowardly behavior". These are "male people", who have, "NO idea" what it means to be a "man". What "goes around, comes around".....you.. WILL.. "get yours"...sooner than you know. Wouldn't want to be in your shoes when that happens....and, it will, my friend,...it will.
2007-06-14 13:42:23 · answer #10 · answered by Cami 7 · 5⤊ 4⤋
Discipline a wife? Someone here has CONTROL ISSUSES! Is the guy that much of a loser that he has to control, or discipline, his wife? I love my wife and accepted her for who she is. The thought of ever needing to discipline her sickens me. If she runs her mouth and embarrasses me it's because I truly deserved it.
Tell this loser to GET A LIFE, not a wife!
2007-06-14 13:24:18 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 7⤊ 5⤋