how do i get my husb to try new things in bed? we have fun but he seems kinda conservative, like i get some fetish outfits and other stuff but doesnt seem interested ouch!
2007-06-14 12:41:47 · 10 answers · asked by M W 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
you just need to communicate with him. Ask him if there's anything he'd like to try. Explain to him that you want to try new things and ask him why he's uncomfortable.
2007-06-14 12:46:31 · answer #1 · answered by who-wants-to-know 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
have a conversation with him, ask him what sexually turns him on and then tell him what turns you on. Make a list and then agree on taking turns trying each others fetishes and fantasies. Of course there has to be a boundary around the things you want to try. You both will have to agree on some and compromise on the others.
2007-06-14 19:51:50 · answer #2 · answered by jimmy.parker06 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try talking about various things you enjoy, and share in fantasies...sometimes it takes bit for someone to come around to the kinkier side..but it is worth the work =). You may also want to try various things like, going shopping for outfits together or for toys...my wife and I both enjoy doing that even if we don't buy anything.
2007-06-15 16:48:02 · answer #3 · answered by emt_dragon339 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just haven't found the right thing for him. Fetish outfits for me are just silly, but doing it out somewhere that we might get caught. Now that is exciting for me. Every one is different. you just need to find out what pushes his buttons.
2007-06-14 20:17:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do what I did to my wife give him a couple glasses of wine then tell him you have somewhere you want to take him.
Then take him to an adult toy store and let him look around see what gets him going.....we ended up spending $300 but the fun we had.......
2007-06-14 19:50:16 · answer #5 · answered by miester44 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was kind of withdrawn when it came to that, like i was very conservative, and my husband needless to say is "wild" I've learned to roll play. Leave him a message on the phone, with your "other" name your bedroom name. Tell him what u like, thats what my husband did, and i began to realize in order for me to please him and no one else, I better jump on it ( no pun intended) So if he ever cheats (knock on wood) it's not for lack of me trying.
2007-06-14 20:30:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just the opposite here,
isn't it funny how opposites attract then we lay there all horny and frustrated,,, life.
he may feel insecure because its not his idea. ask him what his idea of real kinky stuff is and ask him to show you.
2007-06-14 20:14:04 · answer #7 · answered by scott in minnesota 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to Ticklekitty.com and buy something.
2007-06-14 19:55:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just start doing stuff to him. he'll get to excited to protest.
2007-06-14 19:48:05 · answer #9 · answered by racer 51 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GOODLUCK WITH THAT. Give him some MJ to loosen up.
2007-06-14 19:47:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋