my b/f and i have 2 kids together and we recently had broken up and he started seeing this one girl and when we got back together he told me she was pregnant but told me it was a mistake and wants to be with me and our 2 kids~ well we worked that out but now he wants me to get pregnant!!
2007-06-14 09:49:01 · 21 answers · asked by CRYSTAL 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
no way. especally if he got another girl pregnant, he will have to pay support for that baby as well as the two you already have. He sounds like a winner to me.
2007-06-14 09:52:36 · answer #1 · answered by parental unit 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
NO! Are you crazy? First of all, you already have two kids are you really ready for a third? Your bf has a baby on the way with another female, and don't forget he's going to have to pay child support. Don't get pregnant for the wrong reasons. If you get pregnant then he will have four kids! Having babies isn't a joke, be serious about it. Do not have another baby. Why don't you guys get married and then think about it.
2007-06-14 17:03:52 · answer #2 · answered by Pink Princess 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO NO NO
wait for a long while..number 1 you and him still have some trust issues to work on
number 2 you already have two kids that need both of your attention
i would wait a year or so and make sure your relationship is strong and then talk about a new baby
Besides happy babies come from happy parents!
2007-06-14 17:03:02 · answer #3 · answered by Kaden's Mom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you already know the answer. Don't get pregnant right now; wait and see how the relationship goes this time around. If he was seeing someone else right after you broke up, it doesn't seem like he cared that much. Work on making the relationship more stable and then start thinking about another child. Good luck!
Also, did he get tested for STD's? I wouldn't think about having sex with my man after he got another girl pregnant while we were broken up.
2007-06-14 17:02:12 · answer #4 · answered by NYCLady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. I think it sounds like you guys have a lot of things that you need to work out first. It could almost seem that he wants to get you pregnant too so that you will feel like you need to stay with him. Having a baby is not a way to fix a relationship.
2007-06-14 16:55:12 · answer #5 · answered by lahaunna 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
It was no mistake babe they both knew what they were doing. It just sad for you and your kids to be caught in the middle. Dont have another baby by him honey! I know when you love someone its hard to accept the truth about them but please dont be fool honey! God bless and wish you the best in your situation.
2007-06-14 17:00:29 · answer #6 · answered by Erin B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know the answer to this, don't you? It's no. What's his hurry? See how your relationship goes this time around and revisit the issue again in a year.
2007-06-14 16:51:56 · answer #7 · answered by Dalice Nelson 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have never heard of a "boyfriend" who wants more kids?
You are the one who wants more kids?
If it's true, your boyfriend wants more kids (sounds completely made up) then find a real man, not a female brained imposter.
What kind of weak genetics does this boyfriend have that he wants more kids? He doesn't sound like a genius by any stretch.
2007-06-14 16:54:11 · answer #8 · answered by Laszlo D 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I would def wait. You wouldnt want him to leave you again with a baby. So just wait a little and make sure he is serious about being with you and staying with you. Good luck!
2007-06-14 16:52:48 · answer #9 · answered by ஐ♥Sabine♥ஐ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You and people like you are the reason the human race is doomed and we are just playing out the string.
2007-06-14 16:57:20 · answer #10 · answered by outlaw_tattoo_biker 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋