Why do ppl post ?'s on here about pregnancy complications instead of consulting their OB/GYN?

Question

Whats up with that?

Meow! Saucer of milk, anyone? Sheesh. Don't I have the same right to ask this question and have it answered respectfully that you all have to post pregnancy questions? Holy double-standard, Batman!

I wasn't complaining. I was ASKING a QUESTION! Sheesh. Get over your self-righteous attitudes, folks!

Those who have managed to answer the question without being insulting in their response will be considered for Best Answer.

Answer 1

I think in many cases people ask questions of this nature as a form of psychological support. This doesn't necessarily mean that the questioner doesn't consult these issues with their OB/GYN.

Other times, someone may have already asked their physician and are curious as to whether or not they should get a second opinion from given answers.

Here is an example of what I would call a "psychological support question:"

A woman on Yahoo Answers thinks she may be pregnant and wants opinions:

The obvious answer is to take a pregnancy test, but this is probably not what the woman is seeking an answer for.

She may be nervous, emotional or scared and wants some form of comfort and support.

If she is excited and hopeful about a possible pregnancy, she may want to find answers that help produce a positive state-of-mind. In turn this possibility of believing certain answers queues up the same way myths and legends do.

The answers help to psychologically prepare the woman for the possibilities at hand, regardless of the outcome.

Well, that's my take on it at least.

Hope this was helpful in some way. :)

Answer 2

Most of the time its a question their asking to see if someone else has experienced the same thing. It's more for comfort and less of a diagnosis. We're aware that talking to your doctor is better but have you ever been to a OB/GYN for a pregnancy related doctors appointment? they are every 4 weeks, and about 15 minutes IF your lucky. Half the things you wanted to ask, the doctor has no time to answer in detail, or you forget about time you get there. Besides, If I called the OB every time I had a question, they would hate me especially since this is my first pregnancy and I have no Idea what to expect. I constantly wonder if what I'm feeling is normal, and I have driven my mom CRAZY with all the questions I ask her. Even if you read a lot of pregnancy books/articles they still don't tell you about EVERYTHING that's about to happen. You kind of get bits and pieces from here and there. You go through a GREAT amount of changes in your body, and instead of calling your OB, and HOPING they will call you back soon, you can easily go and ask a question, and most likely there is some women around who has went through or is going through the same thing.

Answer 3

Well personally I ask the same questions on here that I ask my OB/GYN. I just usually as them while I am waiting for a call back. I go to a military hospital and have to leave my question in a voicemail and usually dont get a call back for at least a day. So in the meantime I just use this as a sounding board. If I ever think it is a really big deal I will call the Med center that is close by and talk to a nurse. Thankfully when I do that my doctor will call be back sooner because he also works there.

Answer 4

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Answer 5

Obviously you aren't a woman. Sure we can call or OB/GYN and wait a full day if not two days to hear a response. And 9 times out of 10 they tell you oh you better come in just in case. Even when it is something simple like an ingrown hair. We ask questions and answer questions because we have been there and don't want to make every girl go through the waiting process.

Answer 6

I would venture to say the VAST majority of people know that to get a complete, medically sound, doctorate in hand answer they must ask their OB/GYN or ARNP or LM or other medical professional. And I would venture to say that if anyone thought they were in a life jeopardizing situation for themselves or their baby(ies), they would call 911 or get to their closest Emergency Dept.

As many have said before me, they are looking for someone who has been through the same or similar thing. They are not looking to replace their own medical professional help (hopefully).

That being said, please, if at all possible, do not respond with "Meow! Saucer of milk, anyone?" --that kind of posting implies that someone is being catty, and I do not think that anyone, woman or man, but woman especially, appreciates that. If someone is being nasty, don't resort to degrading them. It is truly a "double-standard batman" when women are defensive they're accused of being 'catty'...and when men are defensive they're aggressive or assertive, or simply, 'being a man'....

I know you know a lot about pregnancy from a father's point of view, but there are somethings in life that are almost unimaginable to fathom without going through it personally. And yes, that is a double standard. I cannot imagine a vasectomy. I cannot imagine what it must be like for a man who goes through testicular cancer. I would hope that I would never impose my own judgments on someone with whose predicament I could not empathize.

As one of my university professors said, "Is it possible to write about a topic that you personally have not experienced and be considered an expert about it?" I'll leave that question up to the masses.

Lastly, I understand, I think the intention of your question, and that is that people should not post questions of such an enormous magnitude and consequence as pregnancy complications on a message board -- because the result of someone, heaven forbid, taking advice that was incorrect and/or not sound medical advice from a professionally trained, certified expert is taking a HUGE risk to themselves and their family/baby(ies). So I understand your point.

Remember though, when women get upset, please don't resort to referring to us as cats.

Answer 7

They do ask there ob/gyn for your info but by the time they actually reply back that could take up to two days to three!!! and also they don't ask for advice just for similar symptoms of women who have gone thru the same!! so next time when you want to post a question up regarding women make sure you are one!! and know exactly what we go thru!!!

Answer 8

Most women ask these types of questions because they are scared and sometimes your Doctor isn't very sympathetic. I think for the most part these women have consulted a doctor and are just asking for reassurance from fellow mothers-to-be.

I always consult my doctor first, but when you are pregnant you want to here from other women who have experienced the same/similar thing and can offer some kind words and support.

Answer 9

Obviously your a dude...if a pregnant woman called her OB/GYN every time she had a question or concern or worry the doc's would NEVER see anyone because they would be on the phone 24/7. A little reassurance or advice from someone who has been there is all a woman needs sometimes. Here is a question...why don't men understand women? Especially PREGNANT women?

Answer 10

I think a lot of people like myself would just like to hear others experiences ya know I don't accept these answers as medical advice just opinions and personal stories!! My obgyn is really open and easy to talk to and allways asks if I have any questions or concerns I'm never afraid to call the nurse with questions !! I guess I'm luck that way!!