hey i just got maried and wanted to know that my wife is vergin or not so please help me
2007-06-14 08:54:48 · 38 answers · asked by fadi k 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
If you love her and married her then you have to let that go and believe what she says. If virginity was such a big issue for you, that should have been cleared up and talked about before you said the "I DO" and posted that question on this forum.
Trust her or your marriage is doomed.
Sandy ;o)
2007-06-22 02:23:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
No way to tell for sure but you should trust her if she says she is. If it does not hurt when she has sex she can still have been a virgin. Not all virgins have pain or bleeding the first time they have sex. Trust her. she is your wife. You married her because of the person she is and how she makes you feel. End of story. Let it go.
2007-06-14 19:35:46 · answer #2 · answered by writerthee 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Since you just got married, why don't you ask her?
After all she is your wife and obviously you love each other so you should have nothing to hide. That is the best way to tell.
But there are physical ways to tell, I recommend the first one though above.
If it hurts her and she is a little wary about it at first she is probably a virgin also if you have sex the first time and there is a little bit of blood you have "popped her cherry" this does not hold true for all women though, so it is not completely accurate. But those are also two physical ways to tell.
I still think you should just ask her because communication is key in a relationship, and you should feel free to openly communicate about sex.
2007-06-14 09:23:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 3⤋
Why do you care? You are married now...which comes trust! If your wife was a virgin then you would not be asking this question.......if in fact she was a virgin then the hymen would never of been broken into and there would be little blood shed!
2007-06-21 18:31:52 · answer #4 · answered by Lady D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whilst there are obvious signs like bleeding, this does not always happen. If it doesn't, it does not necessarily mean she isn't a virgin. There is no real way of knowing, apart from asking and believing really.
2007-06-21 14:32:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're supposedly already married, so why should it matter now? That's something you should have discussed with her prior to getting married, and you should just take her word for it, no matter what she says. The past is the past, it's done, no one can erase it, get over it and move on.
2007-06-21 17:17:56 · answer #6 · answered by rachel_ann_82 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
And why are you concerned about this now that you're married?... Aside from a clinical examination (and one could assume that she'd fail the test now that she's married to you and you've probably had intercourse) there's no way to tell other than ASKING her.
2007-06-21 18:30:35 · answer #7 · answered by pinktink 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no way that anyone can tell if another person is a virgin or not. Not even a doctor can tell. There is no way that sex for the first time is "supposed" to affect a girl. For some women it hurts, for some it doesn't. Some women bleed, some don't. Some women have an intact hymen, some don't. Do you see?
2007-06-14 09:29:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 4⤋
Yes,I believe she was a virgin,only good girls wait.I only can tell you it is very painful the first time and I didn't bleed,but one of my sisters said she did.I hope you know if she was a virgin,knowing that you don't think she was could hurt her very badly.
(Many blessings)
2007-06-20 20:53:44 · answer #9 · answered by margaret moon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the first time you two had sex with each other she blead down there. Then she was a virgin.
2007-06-22 07:58:16 · answer #10 · answered by Ladell H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋