i ave been under serious depression,eating sleeping pills every nigt since 1 yr,my usband ignores me,never talks to me properly; hides his cell from me;i tried to trust him many times but everytime he shocks me wen i come to know of his datingswit tat girl from my relatives;now i ave lost my patience and tolerance;i take out te frustration on myself by beating myself,my kids are3 yrs and 1yr
2007-06-14 08:37:39 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I'd have left awhile ago. You need help as well if you're beating on yourself, AND your kids do not need to be in this type of environment. Get a lawyer and get out!!!!!!
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i wud leave my Husband surely as such a person can never be serious in his life again moreover once a trust is broken it can only lead to longg distrustful and frustrating life,doing no good to anybody in family
2007-06-14 08:41:28 · answer #1 · answered by Mickey 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been suffering from post partum depression for the past one year when I gave birth to a baby boy. I couldn't stop thinking about how my husband loves him more than me and how things might be better if he wasn't born at all. Thus, I stayed away from him because I knew that I might do something I will regret for the rest of my life.
Almost instantly I went to a therapist and convince them that I need help. Among other things, I've tried herbal supplements and other book to treat depression but nothing works like the Depression Free Method. So now I'm proud to say I'm one of the happiest mother in the world. My husband loves us both very much and I thank the Lord for the blessing he gave us.
Depression Free Method?
2016-05-16 07:58:49 · answer #2 · answered by Stella 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a mother, you need to put your kids first. Your health and well being should come after. You need to ask yourself if it's worth staying in such an abusive relationship.
Think of what this is doing to your kids. They see what their father is doing and that will hurt them in the long run. They see what his behavior is doing to you, and that might cause some depression later in life. It could even cause bad relationships for them. Would you want them to stay in a relationship if they were being treated unkindly and neglected? If you wouldn't want that for them, then don't do it to yourself either.
Have faith you will find something better. There will always be something better when you've reached hard times. You just need to help lift yourself up.
2007-06-14 08:58:45 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LEAVE NOW! This is unhealthy for you and your children. If you dont leave for you do it for the kids. You would be much better off without a loser like him. You also might want to seek counseling for your depression. Good luck, I know it wont be easy, I had to leave an abusive marriage. But I must say that I am so much happier now.
2007-06-14 08:42:26 · answer #4 · answered by kissbutnevertell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First thing you should do is get help with the depression. Your reaction to this problem is making you ill and as long as you are like this you will find it hard to make this decision. It is your decision to make and no one can do it for you.
Separation and divorce can be very complicated. Once you feel better see a lawyer if you want to separate and learn what you are entitled to.
2007-06-14 08:43:24 · answer #5 · answered by alice 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell yeah!!! If he is causing you that much pain leave him and get help. You don't need to be hurting yourself and your kids because of that fool! Talk to someone you can trust and start taking actions to leave his azz. Forget him, I know you care and love him but he isn't returning it to you. Sometimes you have to be big and make the best choice even if it is hard. You have to go.
2007-06-14 08:42:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I did. my kids were 5 and 1. Best thing I could have ever done. Now, he is living with his bar whore and I am living the life I always wanted....happy, confident, and care free. The only people I need to worry about pleasing now is myself and my kids.
2007-06-14 08:44:17 · answer #7 · answered by JENNIFER G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GET OUT!
It will be hard, but in the end you'll wish you had done it earlier. You shouldn't let anyone have that much control over you, and take away your self esteem, image and hope.
Life's short. LEAVE and start living happy!
2007-06-14 08:44:30 · answer #8 · answered by jt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't deserve to live like that - nobody does. It unmoral. You need to get a divorce and quick. It won't only benefit yourself, it will benefit your children. They don't deserve to live with a dad like that. No real man cheats on his wife. You need to be a woman. Strong. You need to get out there again and find a real man. You can do it
2007-06-14 08:45:24 · answer #9 · answered by hannah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know it seems like there is no hope right now but there is! the only thing that i can tell you i know will save your marriage is god! i'm not saying that you have to start going to church every sunday but if you open your heart to him he will provide the strength and courage that you need for your family to stay together. he can take all your pain away. i'm not saying it's going to be easy but he will fill the void that your husband cannot. good luck. god bless
2007-06-14 08:43:21 · answer #10 · answered by Athena M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋