I asked this question a while back. Women what would you say if your husband or boyfriend told you he showed your privite pictures to some of his friends. And the only reason he did this is because he thinks you are the sexest thing he had ever seen and said other men should see such a beautfull women. How mad would you be and would you be courious of what they had to say about them????
2007-06-14 08:21:33 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I would be very upset. It's an uncomfortable situation to put your loved one in. I wouldn't care what they thought of the pictures. They wouldn't be out there if they weren't smoking hot.
2007-06-14 08:26:09 · answer #1 · answered by pinniethewooh 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think you only showed those pictures to your friends to puff your chest out, to look like big man with a hot wife. You didn't take her feelings into consideration whatsoever. Now imagine how embarassed she will feel when she sees your friends. How would you like her friends to see pictures of that nature of you?? That was the over the top inappropriate. If I was her I'd tell you that I hope you held on to the pictures cuz that's about the only way you're gonna see them private parts for a while.
2007-06-14 08:37:29 · answer #2 · answered by macattack 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It totally depends on how the wife feels about the pictures. If she took them for him only, he had no right to share them without her permission. Period. If she is into that sort of thing and showed them around to her friends or something, then its more of a grey area. Still probably should have asked BEFORE showing the pictures because of their intimate nature.
But as a good rule of thumb girls...unless you are in a longterm, seriously trusting relationship with a mature man...don't trust on film (photo or movie) anything naked or naughty unless you wouldn't mind too terribly other people seeing them.
2007-06-14 08:29:31 · answer #3 · answered by MaxitudesMamma 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be pissed off. That's something I'd share only w/ my husband and husband only. If he felt that I was so beautiful, he shouldn't have felt the need to express his feelings by showing private pics of me. I would be so uncomfortable knowing that whenever I see his friends that they would know something way too personal about me. Something that they should have never seen in the first place. No I wouldn't care what they said about the pictures, I'd be furious that they even looked. That is so gross.
2007-06-14 08:28:32 · answer #4 · answered by Erica 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd dump you for being stupid. You never share that kind of information with others -then when your friends are trying to hit on her, sleep with her, you're going to look really stupid, but you can't wonder why, can you? You violated the oldest rule in the book, what goes on in the bedroom stays in the bedroom. Those pictures are meant for the two of you, it's private, intimate stuff. . .as long as you think she's the sexiest woman you've ever seen that's all that matters, your friends need to sit this out, it's not for their eyes, you can't trust people like that -- Dude you do stuff like that when you're in jr. high!
2007-06-14 08:30:09 · answer #5 · answered by Cris 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing like comprimising the wife/girlfriend. "Think she's the sexiest thing he's ever seen". then why not keep it that way and not share intimate pictures with pals?
Of course....any female who poses for these should know the risks involved by immature and stupid husbands or boyfriends who obviuolsy care nothing for their feelings or privacy.
Dummy. Use your head. And not the one below the belt either.
2007-06-14 08:27:07 · answer #6 · answered by Quasimodo 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would be a little bit upset because the pictures were supposed to be a private thing to share with eachother and no one else, but at the same time i would be flattered that he was that proud.
2007-06-14 08:27:13 · answer #7 · answered by California Kush 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would feel both humiliated and betrayed! Pictures taken between spouses are private and to share those is completely unacceptable. While it is human to wonder what they said the answers to that question wouldn't make it any easier to face them in public. I'd be horrified that my husband would want to share me instead of keep me to himself, and I'd worry about how much he actually valued our relationship. Trust would be difficult if not impossible to earn back.
2007-06-14 08:26:35 · answer #8 · answered by Phaylynn 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
What do you mean by, "private pictures" ? If you mean nudes or lingere shots then there's a reason they're private! I'd say the thought and intention is sweet but the execution was a bit innapropriate. I could understand why she'd be pissed.
2007-06-14 08:25:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
gross i would kill him serious
one day i was talking with bf (ex now) and while i was talking to him, his friend took the phone from him and start talking to me. i was mad at him for 2 weeks for no saying anything to his friend, & i also called him names,
a bf or husband should always keep his wife or gf secret but to show a picture of his gf, that so low he's not a man
2007-06-14 08:31:47 · answer #10 · answered by maya 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋