when i ask something on here like a death of a family member or advice on dealing with my family, or my most recent, my puppy getting killed, they are so apethatic. it makes me sick. seriously??!! i know i ask for their advice.. but dont they know by saying things like .. well it was ur fault, and oh well.. thats NOT helping!!! urggh...
my life basically sucks right now.
i know this sounds dumb.. lol but is there any way to get on"
the tyra show
oprah show
or dr. phil????
helppppp!!!
only nice feedback.. not rude please.
2007-06-14 07:57:16 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Here is your "nice" feedback: Awww your puppy died? Im soooo sorry for you.
Here is what I think: Sounds to me like you have gotten apethetic opinions more than once. Probably at least 3 times... and for some reason you havent caught on that the people here dont give a damn. They are here for entertainment because for the most part they have no lives and want to feel important by answering peoples questions. Digressing a bit thats why I think the avatars are funny because Im willing to bet lots of people look nothing like their avatar (the avatar being more attractive than the person).
Anyways onto the life that you say "sucks": Here is a couple more thoughts for you. 1) Nobody has ever beaten death, and its something everyone goes through 2) You already knew that, and you already knew the answers people were gonig to give you... see a therapist, smiles, rainbows, etc etc... 3) You can get your problems fixed without going on TV to do it. In fact its probably easier out of the public eye. So Im going to call it like I see it. You want attention, and the people at Y! arent giving it to you so you are upset.
Well life sucks then you die. Take a visit to Africa or join the military and go to war before you tell me you have it bad.
And that isnt an apethic opinion. Thats the truth.
2007-06-14 08:18:43 · answer #1 · answered by kcbf 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
We all get hit now and then by some of what Shakespeare called "the slings and arrows of outrageous fortune". All too often, while we are still reeling from those blows, some jerk will come along and throw some more of man's inhumanity to man into the mix.
It is a sad and unfortunate fact that as we progress technologically, we seem to digress socially.
It is not easy, but the best defense against that sort of thing is to just develop a thick skin that their thoughtlessness and lack of humanity will bounce harmlessly off of. Consider the source when someone responds unkindly and - as long as it is not a close loved-one - realize that they and their negativity are not worth upsetting yourself over.
What goes around DOES, INDEED, come around, and all acts of unkindness and inhumanity DO eventually take their toll on their perpetrator(s). We sometimes lose sight of this because, when the account comes due, it is usually someone other than the original victim who does the collecting.
As to the TV shows you mention, I have no idea. I work all day so I never see daytime TV, and I watch very little of it at night.
2007-06-14 09:18:21 · answer #2 · answered by monarch butterfly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry you lost your puppy I to am a dog lover and have cried and been unhappy about losing one. I also have seen insensitive answers on here. I don't take it personally these people aren't someone I would probably associate with in the REAL WORLD anyways so screw them. I really don't think getting on one of those shows is your answer, those people don't care about you they just exploit you to make a buck. Find a friend to talk to and keep asking anything you like on here no matter what others think, it's your right just as much as the next guys and ignore the insensitive jerks. There are nice people on here.
2007-06-14 08:29:43 · answer #3 · answered by darowdomo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you go to their websites or call the toll free number you can talk to them to get on. Im sorry everyone here is so insensitive sometimes, even when you are serious. Life is a struggle, and events happen that arent your fault. Just take it one day at a time and try to focus on anything that makes you happy or something that takes your frustration away. Try biking or playing a sport, running or just walking. Something to keep you busy and get your mind off of things
2007-06-14 08:04:36 · answer #4 · answered by Victoria O 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it sounds dumb at all; when someone doesn't acknowlege that the way you feel is valid, it's painful, and aggravating. I think you have to find someone you can talk with - not necessarily a counselor, just someone you feel comfortable venting to a little bit. It may take a few tries, but sooner or later you'll find someone who can listen.
I'm really sorry about your puppy; I lost a cat to cancer recently, and I cried my eyes out.
2007-06-14 08:01:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok. well maybe call them. Trya is good. But just a question... for what> everybody deals with bad stuff..... you cant just go on the show just because your life is bad.. .you have to make it good your self... you need to in clude in this question what is wrong with you... also alot of people on here are dumb and need to get a lyf :)
2007-06-14 08:04:09 · answer #6 · answered by Severus Snape 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know what aggravates ME? People not knowing how to spell. And maybe that's part of the reason nobody takes you seriously. But I'm sorry for whatever happened to you.
2007-06-14 08:06:16 · answer #7 · answered by Maus 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well, missy, you are just asking to be answered rudely. Your questions awaken only feelings of despise, and not the tiniest bit of empathy.
As for your question, it does not just sound dumb, but it is just the way it sounds. If someone got on that show, there logically must be a way to get on it. Duh!
2007-06-14 08:02:53 · answer #8 · answered by Buchyex 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
jeez! are you having a bad day? if you are, i'm sorry about it. hope it gets better♥
2007-06-14 08:10:28 · answer #9 · answered by ♥Charmed One♥ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋