I am conducting a survey on how many people have cheated on their spouses without them knowing. Please be honest! Thanks
2007-06-14 07:56:17 · 36 answers · asked by JesseNevaehsMommy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
And NO i dont plan on cheating on my husband for those of you that asked...i have to do a survey for work...thanks
2007-06-14 08:02:39 · update #1
Never! if I am unhappy with my BF or spouse i will talk about it if things don't get better than I leave the relationship...Plain and simple. I don't think it is fair to cheat on another, and for those poeple who can't stop themselves from doing it should stay single or be with someone who is ok with it.
I have had a BF that cheated on me and it was the worst deception and it effected me emotionally. I was young too at the time...thanks to BF's after that that were faithfull I healed.
2007-06-14 08:00:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
No I have never cheated on any boyfriend, nor would I cheat on my man now. I have a rule, If I am so unhappy to seek elsewhere for affection, then I think it's time I sat down with my man and either work it out or break up. Cheating causes trouble and makes matters worse. It's a lie that snowballs like all other lies. I just don't have energy for that. I would rather spend my life with a clear conscience and improve my chances for happiness not make it harder. I think cheating unnecessarily puts insecurities in the spouses head, and they spend their time not trusting or thinking it's their fault. Which makes it even harder for your spouse to have any great chance at happiness. Nobody deserves to be put in that spot.
2007-06-14 08:06:46 · answer #2 · answered by maev 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not physically, I had an emotional affair (chatted with someone on the internet for emotional support) other than that no I haven't. I never thought I would do that but I guess I am not above anyone else. I would like to say no I will never cheat on him, and I have no intention on cheating him, nor have I thought of or want to. So if I had to answer you question in with yes and no. I would say yes I have and no I wouldn't.
2007-06-14 08:03:53 · answer #3 · answered by 20+ years and still in-love! 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yuck Maria!! I would never cheat on my husband and I never have!! We have always talked openly and we have agreed that if we ever get the urge to cheat and we are not happy anymore, that we would be honest with each other and go our separate ways before doing anything stupid!
2007-06-14 08:00:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I have cheated on my husband. When he was being a manipulative controlling, uncommunicating, hateful drunk. That was 9 years ago.. I would cheat on him again if I had the opportunity. My married life is horrible and I could use a man who is romantic, caring and understanding. And yes, I have talked to my husband about his attitude and he does not care. He loves me and thinks he is doing nothing wrong, and does not have a problem.
2007-06-14 08:08:58 · answer #5 · answered by Makingitwork 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I myself have NEVER cheated on my fiance. I, in the past, was usually the cheatee (is that even a word?) but I have been raised to be morally stronger than that ( it doesnt hurt that I have 5 generations of divorce in my family lol)
2007-06-14 08:00:25 · answer #6 · answered by reannas_mum 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No, I would break the marriage off first, out of respect for my husband and myself. There is no worse insult than to be cheated on.
2007-06-14 08:00:54 · answer #7 · answered by juggalizzle 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Have I ever cheated ? No
Would I ever cheat ? NO
Would I ever want to cheat ? NO never ever because I would never want to do anything stupid to throw away what we have.
Plus I can't see anyone else wanting to jump his bones or mine hahahah we're each others hahahah.. :)
He's a military man and (amazing) in bed....
Plus ....I can't see myself with anyone else..and I can't see him being with anyone else..plus we're both taking this relationship very seriously...we've both fantasized about children too.. (he's a caucasian guy, I'm a short asian girl)....and we both think mixed children are beautiful and amazing.. maybe dreams will come true.. :)
2007-06-14 08:12:03 · answer #8 · answered by cnn360coffeebubbles 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I have not cheated but I have meet someone who I have fallen for and I know that if he and I were to decide to be together then I would leave my husband for him and beleive it or not I love my husband, he is a great man. He does not deserve me.
2007-06-14 08:01:27 · answer #9 · answered by KT 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No and I never will. I made a life long commitment. My vows mean something to me. People who cheat are pathetic.
2007-06-14 07:59:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋