I just had a baby 2 & 1/2 months ago, and I immediately started back on the birth control pill. But I went to the doctor's today because my stomach felt sort of odd, and I was bleeding alot. Come to find out, I had a miscarriage. Should I tell my boifriend, or would it be best to keep my mouth shut?
2007-06-14 07:37:05 · 13 answers · asked by blazin_mamma 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
I would sit him down and talk to him. He has the right to know, and you might get upset over it. telling him will give you someone to talk to if you get down. Its always best to confide in someone you love so you dont carry a big burden yourself whatever the situation is.
2007-06-14 07:42:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
actually you need to inform the daddy! you need to also propose him to apply safe practices as you need to guard your self especially in case you pick to conceive outdoors of marriage. through how, the concept and stress of having and worrying for a baby out-of-wedlock can very well make a contribution to a miscarriage. So tell the daddy because that he had 50% involvement on your decision to "play residing house" for an afternoon.
2016-10-18 21:43:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I also had a miscarriage. Ofcourse you should tell him. Keep him in the loop. It would be wrong not to. You would have to tell him if it survived right? Also, make sure you check back with the doctor to make sure you are ok. I actually had twin miscarriages, one came out naturaly and the other did not. So just make sure you are ok, doesnt hurt to check.
2007-06-14 07:46:54 · answer #3 · answered by Alexias 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it is on your mind and bothers you, it would be good to tell him.
Also so in the future if he were to find out somehow, he won't think you were hiding something from him for a reason!
Sorry to hear about that, but I do guess that you already have your hands quite full..
2007-06-14 07:42:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is apart of your life, you should definitely tell him but if he checked out after the baby was born, absolutely not. If he doesn't care about the 1st, he doesn't have any right to know about the 2nd.
2007-06-14 07:44:32 · answer #5 · answered by Punk Rock Gurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry for your loss! I would tell the father because you both need time to heal from losing a child and you should not have to be the only one mouring. You need someone now and he should know that he lost a child. God bless you!
~Candice~
2007-06-14 07:50:28 · answer #6 · answered by Candice 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's your decision. Man, I wasn't even thinking about sex when my baby was 2 1/2 mos old !!!!
2007-06-14 07:42:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, you should tell, because that was his baby, and his loss as well. just cause it was your body don't mean he don' t have the right to mourn for the baby you both lost. tell him, it's the best thing to do
2007-06-14 07:44:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think thats up to you...Personally My Husband and I talk about EVERYTHING and anything. I could never keep that from him...I would be upset and would prob lean on him for support.
2007-06-14 07:40:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
Well, tell him. It's nothing you can control. I don't understand why you would question this unless there is more to the story.
2007-06-14 07:40:38 · answer #10 · answered by tangerine 4 · 5⤊ 0⤋