I was excited to get my first ultrasound last Thursday. Is my first pregnancy and i was told i would miscarry. I started to bleed last tuesday very light and it got heavy by the fourth day and it lasted heavy for two days. It's been light since then but yesterday and today i stopped bleeding. Can this be a sign that i won't miscarry or does the bleeding come & go? I was told that 90% i would miscarry and i have been dealing with the grief since i found out. I don't want to get my hopes up since i've stopped bleeding. I know everyone's experience is different but it would help to know your experience. How long doesn't it take to miscarry? Did you stop bleeding at some point during the transaction? I pray everyday as well as my family that it won't happen. The man above is the only one that can decided and i will praise him even if i lose my unborne child. I was just hopeing your experience will help me.
2007-06-14 05:59:11 · 11 answers · asked by dodgergirl 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
The only way to make sure is to go to your doctor and have him check it out. I had a miscarriage last Aug. I was 4 month. I started bleeding very lightly, went to the doctor right away and they said this happens, but everything is ok. Bleeding stopped but the next week i started again. went back to the doctor, and they said the same thing. Few days after that, i went into labor and i miscarried. Yes it was very painful emotionally and physically, but i'm glad you said you pray. Hi will bring you peace and will confort you.
There was actually a good thing, when i was contracting, (very painful) i started praising God and singing songs of worship. The pains were coming every minute or so, but they had stopped as i was singing. When i got to the hospital, the medic was telling his partner, "man she started singing to God and the pains stopped". Through this hard time, my son who now is in eternity, brought Glory to God.
If in fact you miscarried, i'm sorry, but yes keep praising God!!
2007-06-14 06:17:48 · answer #1 · answered by pattscool 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well Bleeding Isn't Always Bad...
I Had A Miscarriage Last Year And I Bled Lightly For 2 Days Before I Miscarried...You'll Get BAD Cramps, Worse Than Period Cramps... And There Will Be Clots Of Blood...
I'm Currently 23 Weeks Pregnant And @ About 10 Or 12 Weeks I Bled For A Week And Nothing Happened... Then Again @ 16 Weeks For A Week....Some Days It Was Light, Some Days It Was Heavy... I Obviously Didn't Miscarry Since I Just Had An Ultrasound 2 Weeks Ago And Everything's Great!!!
Don't Get Your Hopes Up Just Yet... Howver, Do RELAX!!!
Good Luck :)
P.S - Don't Listen To Everyone Saying You've Already Miscarried... Only A Doctor Can Tell You For Sure!!!
2007-06-14 06:06:16 · answer #2 · answered by Tink's Mommy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry for your loss. I have had three miscarriages and I would say that, yes, you have definitely miscarried. Again, so sorry. Each of my miscarriages were different. One was very heavy and intense for a few days, then over. The second one was more like you are describing. pregnancy confirmed by doctor, then ultrasound showed that miscarriage was inevitable. Bleeding started a few days later, and went off and on for about six weeks. This was really draining, physically and emotionally, and I am very sorry if this is how it goes with you. On the bright side, about a year after my second miscarriage, I got pregnant again, and now have a beautiful 4 year old son. I had another miscarriage about a year ago, but am now pregnant with another boy-20 weeks along, so I am past the danger point for a miscarriage (which is roughly 10-13 weeks). Just want you to know that you absolutely CAN have children, even if you have miscarried several times. Good luck to you, and God bless. I have tears in my eyes right now remembering the loss and sadness I felt after my miscarriages. It can be hard for some people to understand how disappointing it is. If they haven't gone through it themselves, it doesn't seem like that big a deal, but I sympathize with you deeply. Be kind to yourself for awhile, and don't blame yourself, because it is highly unlikely you could have done anything to prevent this. God bless you.
2007-06-14 08:35:30 · answer #3 · answered by karenlovesdusty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just had a "miscarriage" about two weeks ago. I say it like that because I was 16 weeks and when I had my baby he was fully formed and still alive for about an hour after I had him- the doctors still called it a "miscarriage" and could not explain to me why or how it happened. I had been bleeding for a while before and they said there was nothing they could do if I was going to miscarry because i was too early. I was bleeding on and off- I am just now starting to stop bleeding, but I was really far along.
I am sorry you are going through this- it must be really tough for you. It sounds like you are still early in your pregnancy. The only way to tell if you have had a miscarriage if to continue to check with your doctor- they will keep doing ultrasounds.
I know how hard this must be for you, and I will pray for you that everything turns out ok with the baby, and if it doesn't, i will pray that you are ok.
2007-06-14 06:17:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a miscarriage two years ago and the bleeding I experienced was actually lighter than a period. Everyone is a little different. Even though the bleeding has stopped (it has to eventually) does not mean that you won't miscarry. Your body has probably already expelled everything and that's why you have stopped bleeding. I'm terribly sorry for your loss.
2007-06-14 06:03:59 · answer #5 · answered by Rene 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Did they tell you why they thought you were miscarrying? Did they see something on the ultrasound? I can tell you that when I was pregnant with my daughter, I bled off and on for three months and she was fine. I can also, unfortunately, tell you that I miscarried two months ago with another child. I bled lightly for the first day or so and then it just got heavier.
I wish I could tell you that things will be okay. I hope they are. If you do miscarry and need someone to talk to, you can e-mail me.
2007-06-14 06:12:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's sounds like you miscarried. You really ought to see your doctor again to be sure. Were there clots in the blood? Bleeding is not a good sign. I had a miscarriage in November and it was incredibly painful and I bled for about 3 weeks with a lot of clots.
2007-06-14 06:03:21 · answer #7 · answered by Katie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im so sorry to your loss. And it IS a loss , it doesn't matter what ppl attempt to let you know . I have had three are living births , been pregnant 6 occasions . three miscarriages ( everywhere in the 6-nine week variety) so i understand how you think . One of the ones used to be three months earlier than i received pregnant with my moment baby. So it's viable to get pregnant and keep pregnant. Jut have religion , it's going to occur for you too . Hope this is helping any .
2016-09-05 16:32:46 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had 2 miscarriages..the first one was 4 years ago...and i did bleed...i bleed a little bit and the more and i will stop and then i will bleed again(not everyday)..the second (yesterday was 2 years of my miscarriage) i didnt even bleed.....all i had was pain.
i think you should go to the doctor or hospital.they should do you an ultrasound.
2007-06-14 06:11:52 · answer #9 · answered by nenasgv626 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry to say this but the bleeding most likely was the miscarriage. Go back to your doctor and they will most likely check to see if you fully miscarried. I am so sorry for you loss.
2007-06-14 06:04:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋