what do you say about something like that?
2007-06-14 05:46:15 · 16 answers · asked by wmanderson6 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
well it depends how you feel about his and your own? You can possibly explore swinging as an option. Or just say to him well i like mine better too! Sorry about your luck! lol That should get him to drop the subject pretty quick.
2007-06-14 05:50:58 · answer #1 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're the other wife, he is hitting on you and doesn't see you in your everyday mode of big sweatshirt and floppy socks, or paying the bills, or nagging your husband to pick up his socks. He has this fantasy view of you.
What you say is, "Let's go together right now and go tell your wife what you think about me and her. She needs to hear this. C'mon, let's go - let's go!" If he balks, then say, "Well, then I am going alone to tell her since I will not tolerate that type of talk." Sure it will strain and perhaps ruin the friendship but so what? He's a creep. Why do you want to be friends with a creep?
If you are the other husband, he's a flaming homotron and he wants some man-strange on the side. Run.
2007-06-14 12:59:48 · answer #2 · answered by salacious_crumb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems like things can get pretty dirty here. Try speaking to his wife ASAP. Avoid him if you can this will only cause problems between the married couple. Tell your husband also.
2007-06-14 12:51:14 · answer #3 · answered by Txgirl23 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know, it depends how it'sbeing said. It can be said with a smile, in front of the wife, and that's 100% tease.
If it's in the tone of confidence men to men, that means that right now, his wife gets on his nerve. Not comfortable.
2007-06-14 12:57:54 · answer #4 · answered by yogi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not good!! Sounds like the guy in the other relationship is a cad & looking for a no strings affair. Unless you want that stay away from him!!
2007-06-14 12:50:34 · answer #5 · answered by Bright 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just went through this but with my sister's huband. I can't tell my husband because he will beat the living daylights out of her husband. Can't tell my sister because she will be so hurt. I told him that if he ever tells me anything like that again I'll not only tell my husband but I'll tell my sister and make sure she leaves him. He hasn't approached me since. You have to say something though because if you don't, he could continue with the comments and feel that since you didn't say anything you may feel the same way.
2007-06-14 12:49:50 · answer #6 · answered by ladystarrchild107 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Drop the creep as a friend. He is a cheater and a low life. No loyalty to his partner. No loyalty to anyone. Dump him as an acquaintence. He has serious deep issues that will only be fixed by a doctor (maybe).
2007-06-14 12:49:28 · answer #7 · answered by sammie_miles 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't feel flattered. He's trying to get into your pants. What a jerk. This doesn't sound like a friendship to me -- sounds like he wants to "swap". Take the higher road and cut off contact with this couple. If your husband asks, you will have to talk to him about it.
2007-06-14 12:53:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell him to back off and spend more time with his wife, and to get his priorities straight. If he is telling you that now, he obviously wants more than just friendship. Don't let him any closer to where it could cause problems with YOUR marriage as well as his own.
2007-06-14 12:49:57 · answer #9 · answered by Lisa G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him thats too damn bad he has a wife and u have a hubbie he needs to honor his vows and your not just some whore bag.,.... and if he mentions it again that youll tell his wife what hes been saying and he can see if all of that is worth what he has
2007-06-14 12:49:39 · answer #10 · answered by jfrench4 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋