We have been married for a few years years and our sex life had slowed down a bit - we were only making love about two or three times a week. However since he found out that I slept with another man he can't leave me alone. He showers me with affection and we now make love every day, sometimes even twice. I am not complaining but I wonder what the explanation for this is.
2007-06-14 04:29:19 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Since another guy f*cked me he has been crazy about me- even more than we first got together. He says he loves me more than life itself and is continually cuddling me and sucking my toes and so on. Its great!! I think I will have to f*ck someone else wherever his interest wanes. He says we are married and committed and he will never leave me no matter what.
2007-06-15 09:23:56 · update #1
did you sleep with another man because you weren't getting enough? Now he is giving you more than you want so you don't stray again, personally if that was me, I'd dump your *** to the curb.
2007-06-14 04:49:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its a pride thing.. See yo took his man hood away he thought that he was good enough for you and that was alright to him instead of leaving you because he loves you to much he is trying to be what you need something that he was lacking before so it wont happen again he wants you to not go else where by doing that by keeping you hes showing you that he can be that man to you... see men think we cheat because there not good enough in bed but most of the time its emotional with us threes something besides sex that dwells us to another man....
2007-06-14 12:35:31 · answer #2 · answered by ktbhlove 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't understand. Did you cheat on your husband and then when he found out about it he has been all over you? or is it that he found out you weren't a virgin when you got married?
If you had the affair then he may be trying to "win you back with affection and open displays of his love." Or maybe, just maybe, he wants to keep you happy and share his wife with other men. This is a good time to ask him directly what is going through his ming.
2007-06-14 11:35:29 · answer #3 · answered by Someone somewhere doing something 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's just trying to make sure that he doesn't give you a reason to be unfaithful again. Not that he doesn't trust you, but usually someone has an affair because they are not getting something from home. So your husband showers you with affection so that you aren't lacking anything in that department--not physically or emotionally. Relax and just enjoy it.
2007-06-14 11:53:47 · answer #4 · answered by mshavik 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is afraid of losing you or the thoughts of your lover being with someone else sometimes triggers different behavior. Then he might be thinking that you will go further in the adventure department (sex). It could be anything, maybe it was a wake up call even. If you like it, go with it.
2007-06-14 11:34:04 · answer #5 · answered by CaseyK 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Come on, you know. He wants to make sure he keeps you satisified so you don't go cheating on him again. You should be grateful he even talks to you, let alone has sex with you. Cheating is never the answer and won't solve anything. Well I guess unless you have a weak man like your husband seems to be.
2007-06-14 12:05:01 · answer #6 · answered by Brandy 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I had a similiar situation with my husband. After he caught me with my lover, we talked for hours about everything that led up to my decision, afterwards, and for many, many months, he too decided that he couldn't keep his hands off of me. Two even three times a day he wanted sex. When I asked him why so much now, when before, if he wanted it once a week, I was surprised. He told me, he figured that he needed to keep me happy and make sure that I was taken care of, that way he didn't have to worry about me straying again. This is most likely the same thing your guy is thinking. If he showers you with a bunch of attention and wants to please you repeatedly each day, then he feels you won't need to stray again.
2007-06-14 12:07:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It looks as though your husband got a kick in the but for your relationship. He probably realized that to keep a great relationship, it takes work. And if you dont work at it, you can lose it. "You never know what you have until its gone". Maybe he got a glimpse of what it would be like to live without you and couldn't bear it.
: )
2007-06-14 11:34:09 · answer #8 · answered by flygurl_037 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He thinks you slept with another man because he wasn't giving you enough action, so he thinks he can win you back by doing it more. He's more understanding than I would be. If I found out my wife had sc***ed another man, I'd tell her not to let the door hit her on the way out.
2007-06-14 12:58:20 · answer #9 · answered by mikey 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
After your husband found out about your betrayal, perhaps he thought that it was his fault to have neglected you. He maybe trying to make up for those times hoping that you will not feel neglected and unloved again.
You should be happy that your husband still loves you after all that.
2007-06-14 11:45:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋