2007-06-14 04:06:44 · 7 answers · asked by Nimbot 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I started to date about five months after my separation. Good thing I didn't wait for the divorce to be final because that ended up taking FIVE YEARS. Didn't get really serious with anyone for a long time.
Did not introduce anyone to my kids as a "girlfriend" until after the divorce was final. My kids have a very good relationship with my girlfriend and I think it's partially because they know I didn't rush right out looking for a "new mommy" for them. They were 6 and 9 when we separated, and they are now 12 and 15. They had a lot of time to get used to the idea of me being with someone else and, in fact, were all in favor of it.
2007-06-14 04:23:39 · answer #1 · answered by Musicality 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I started dating about a month after my separation and was already in a serious relationship by the time my divorce was final. I was re-married a year and a half after my divorce was final.
2007-06-14 04:13:17 · answer #2 · answered by Paul's Doll : ) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
such numerous elements in contact the following that i don't think of there's a acceptable answer. How previous are the toddlers, how lengthy before the separation and divorce replaced into there nevertheless a actual marriage, is there someone you want as a lot as now. i imagine you even might want to invite what's your purpose for relationship - companionship, a father figure for the toddlers, intimacy, and so on. i imagine you'll comprehend even as that's the right time as a lot as now, no matter if that's next week or a twelve months from now. I had my heart so damaged i might want to slightly elevate my head off the pillow. I immediately went out and tried to modify my ex. All I were given were numerous first and in ordinary words undesirable dates. I then waited a lengthy time period and were given my personal abode again so as before I ventured out again. This time I had a lot interesting. i did not meet my actual love again yet I did meet numerous exciting human beings, had some particular situations and fairly were given out of relationship what I got down to do. For me it replaced into adult companionship and communication far flung from my youngsters. again....you'll comprehend once you're waiting as a lot as now. no longer everyone else. reliable success to you.
2016-11-23 20:47:32 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Our marriage had been bad for about a year before he moved out, slept apart, no sex etc... I filed for divorce in Oct. and went out with friends, not alone on a date so I wouldn't be cheating. Then when he kept putting off the divorce I started seeing someone in Feb. at first with friends and then by myself in about May. I kept seeing him. The x, thought he should get everything, even know he was the one cheating and I had proven it and kept on and on and it took till the following Oct. to divorce him. don't judge, you can't blame everyone for the x's actions. Go out and have fun.
2007-06-14 04:20:14 · answer #4 · answered by CaseyK 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I didn't start dating until my divorce was final. But after the divorce was final it was about 6mo I guess. But I didn't get serious with anybody for about 2 yrs after.
2007-06-14 04:10:06 · answer #5 · answered by be happier own a pitbull 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A couple of month prior to the separation :)) I know its bad...but it was a sure sign it really was time to leave.
2007-06-14 04:16:24 · answer #6 · answered by gypsy g 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the next day!
2007-06-14 04:14:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋