( horrible I know...but I promise it'a a really complicated situation ) Thing is she now knows my name and chances are will be seeking me out any time soon. He has said that I can tell her what ever I want....but what on earth do I do. Tell her to ease my conscience and to give her the full truth to move on with or lie to protect us?
2007-06-14 03:55:44 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I'm not suggesting that she move on physically...just that I know how much it can hurt being lied to and that in order to get over a betrayal like this sometimes only knowing the truth will do it.....knowing that maybe you were right to trust your instincts etc....
2007-06-14 04:03:51 · update #1
SAY NOTHING!! It is his responsiblity to explain the situation to his girlfriend. You went into this with your eyes wide open and were aware of her existence but decided to pursue things anyway. Don't do his dirty work. The fact that she has your contact information in no means obligates you to respond and/or explain. Say nothing, do nothing. You have no idea what he's said to her about you or what you'll be walking in on. Be very careful, I don't see a happy ending...
2007-06-14 04:07:50 · answer #1 · answered by dacurious1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Complicated or not, he needs to be forced to make a choice. And whoever he chooses should walk away immediately after the rejected one cusses him out.
You two ladies deserve better! There is only one you, and that should be more than enough to make a deserving man happy. No excuses!
Good luck.
2007-06-14 04:01:19 · answer #2 · answered by Jewels 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So you want her to move on so you can have him to yourself?Girls like you make it hard for women in relationships a man can only go as far as you let him.You knew he had a girlfriend but you didn't care.You and him deserve each other
2007-06-14 04:58:53 · answer #3 · answered by imacutie2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell you what, if she ask just remember that it is her guy. You knew that he was in a relatioship and yet your worried about your feelings-what about his girlfriends feelings. I say stop being selfish and only thinking about how your feel and what's going to happen to you. If you were to stay in this relationship just know that he is going to mess around on you. At night when you two are together you can tell him how her tongue, ***, and her kitty cat taste because chances are your getting more leftovers than you know- enjoy.
2007-06-14 04:01:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
No, no, you have it all wrong. You need to make lemonade out of these lemons. Obviously you're both in lust with the same man, so the solution is elegantly simple: have threesomes at every opportunity, and take turns the rest of the time.
2007-06-14 04:00:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well don't you think if he says you can tell her anything you want to tell her then it means he already has. Therefore you are obviously no big secret between them...and if she's still with him that means that she's ok with it...in that case what are you worried about?
2007-06-14 04:01:15 · answer #6 · answered by gypsy g 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-09 04:49:10 · answer #7 · answered by lafortune 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he cheats on her he will cheat on you. Why continue in a destructive relationship? Start fresh and you will feel better about yourself. No more lies!
2007-06-14 04:01:11 · answer #8 · answered by Barbara B 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why is this your responsibility to do anything at all? He is the one who made the commitment to her, let him explain it.
2007-06-14 04:02:23 · answer #9 · answered by Brandy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why should she move on? you move on! who the heck would you be to tell her that?
2007-06-14 04:00:03 · answer #10 · answered by EspysMom 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋