i was in a relationship for 5 years, she was a step mom to my kids, she was all my son has ever known.on the eve of my duaghters birthday we came home to the house and she had cleaned out her stuff and left. she has left me in huge debt and there is allot more problems she left me with , i cannot get in touch with her and according to friends she is acting like i abused her(she has depression and other problems) which i never did. the kids and i want her back so bad we miss her and when her problems were under control, she was my wife to be, how can i get her back ,she has disowned most of her family except her (loopy mother) should i wear a suite and get flowers and stand outside her work at closing time and see if she will talk to me? if so what do i say ? ladies please help.
2007-06-14 00:28:15 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i forgot the details. see she is under allot of misunderstandings right now, and appearently fell in with a women friend from work who is a man hater and a control freak, this women would even call and check up on her if she called in sick for work, her sister is torn appart , he family (other than her mother) wants to see us back together. she is not taking my calls or email , it has been 20 days since this happened. i feel that since she might be off her meds, and with the misunderstandings that this is a terrible thing to waste a 5 year relationship over and leave two kids in counseling over.
2007-06-14 00:42:58 · update #1
why would you want her back cause she sounds borderline skits o frenic . I would leave her alone or have her mentally evaluated . No never mind I would just leave her alone period . good luck .
2007-06-14 00:31:53 · answer #1 · answered by Kate T. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why why why would you want someone back that left you and your children with emotional and financial problems at the drop of a hat? She obviously has problems and doesnt seem interested in working them out. I suggest you sit down with your kids....explain that she is not coming back....help them through the grieving process and then settle into a life without Susy-home-wrecker...
btw if you actually did get her back(and I hope you dont) whats to stop her from doing this same thing in the future? if she can do it once she can do it again. keep you pride and dont go to her...your number one priority are your kids
2007-06-14 00:35:17 · answer #2 · answered by coolred38 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IT sounds like she has some mental problem's. Yeah you guy's might miss her but she needs to figure herself out first. But let her know that you do still care for her and you will helpher in anyway. Unless she is that crazy she doesn't want your help. I would just leave her alone though. She walked out on you guy's without saying a word. She might hurt your kids one day if she is like that.
2007-06-14 00:32:18 · answer #3 · answered by JAN 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she would call you a stalker if you stand outside. Give her space and hope she gets the help she needs.
2007-06-14 00:33:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she left u in debt and broke ur kids heart aswell as yours why even think about it?find someone else
2007-06-14 00:31:26 · answer #5 · answered by Lilshorty69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i will advice you try it because it is not good for husband & wife to be apart.thanks
2007-06-14 00:34:25 · answer #6 · answered by takuro 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋