At school, joining a club will at least introduce you to people who have the same interests, especially if the club is one of a very specific interest, like juggling. Yes, There was actually a juggling club at my high school (very good for meditation/relaxation/focus).
Also out of school, there were neighbors that were skaters like myself. Skateboarding is a loner sport, and yet its one where you can basically "join in" wherever of a bunch of them hang out at. You get the picture.
I was one of those Mod guys that listened to New Order and Depeche Mode all the time. I'm such a loner, I only have two friends, but they are like brothers, and I don'teven like being around them that much. As far as my little sisters are concerned, they were jocks in high school. They had a lot of friends, but in the end most became their source of drama.
Dont think of being a loner as a bad thing. Just think of it as being a person who cuts out all of the middlemen or extra fluff in life. We just grow, adapt, and feel comfortable being ourselves faster than others, thats all.
2007-06-14 01:31:50
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answered by cpc26ca 1
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just come to them and talk. maybe invite them over. make a party and invite all class. if u re a nice person and u have some hobbies and passion about smth they will like u and take u to join them. but if u re dull, boring person - sorry dear. u have to fix it first
2007-06-14 00:20:19
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answered by yeahright 6
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just be you'r self and the people who like who you are will come to you just be nice and respectfull to others and you'' get along with everyone, well.... except for the people who thinks there god gift to earth ...yeah right there probbly stuck up bitches anyway so dont strees about it.
2007-06-14 00:20:51
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answered by Anonymous
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why dun u join wit ur classmate and from there ur classmate can introduce some of his frend and from there u can make frend
2007-06-14 00:25:48
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answered by Anonymous
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ask them do they have room for a new friend and if dont get ya own team holla
2007-06-14 00:17:20
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answered by msstockny 4
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join there clubs, it can be tennis, rugby, drink etc
2007-06-14 00:17:42
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answered by Simex 3
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