A guy says...I go to church to find "good" girls and I go to bars to get "what I need".....what does that mean? Are women really into that? Is there a screening process you use?
The guy floored me when he said this....I didn't know how to respond.....I think its because I'm naive....Alright opinions?
2007-06-12 18:53:05 · 23 answers · asked by Experimental876 4 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
It sounds like he has two sides. One side desires intimacy and a morally strong relationship with a "pure" type of girl, while his other side is craving to satisfy the passionate, sexual side. So typically girls who go to bars are a lot more free with their sexuality than those girls who frequently attend church. It's too bad that all of these girls have to be manipulated and tricked like this though. I wish his mindset towards women was different, but there's little anyone can do to change that.
2007-06-12 18:57:57 · answer #1 · answered by Snicker_Doodle8 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am not surprised by your question. I have always found it a bit curious that many women chase after the "bad boy". A man, and I use that term extremely loosely, that abhors commitment, often does not show much respect for the fairer sex, and is in high demand (by other women); a "bad boy". It’s been my experience that such women do not have a "screening process" except to the extent that you are excluded from the "process" if you are clean cut, honest, and respectfully.
Sadly many of these same women readily procreate with such men only to find that the "man" is un-findable at worst, or undependable at best, when it's time to be a father. The bad boy reaps the rewards however, because there are more standing in line ready to bear his children.
2007-06-12 19:06:25 · answer #2 · answered by last_errant_knight 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
We think the same way, in a sense. Speaking for myself I don't meet guys in bars because I know it probably wouldn't become a serious relationship but just a one night stand. If I want a relationship I look through friends ( my choice as opposed to church).
I remember going to a bar w/ friends and some loser trying to pick me up because I was there for a one night stand according to him. Females are allowed to go to bars w/out being labeled sluts. I don't even drink but if my friends want to go to one I will go. That a female in a bar is a slut is a very closed minded way of thinkingwhat is this the 1800's?
2007-06-12 18:59:10 · answer #3 · answered by uknowme 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
yes it does seem about right. Not all good girls are in church and not all girls go to the bar to 'get some' I guess you just have to hang around bars enough to scope out who is willing to do what. sad thing the world is coming too.
2007-06-12 18:56:49 · answer #4 · answered by ∞Mixed§Peanuts∞ 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I agree with him. We are creatures of habit. If you want to know where someone will be, look at where they've been.
That guy sounds like he's a cheater though. He probably dates the good girl and finds his ONS at the bar
2007-06-12 18:56:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well there's some truth to what he says... You're more likely to 'score' with a woman you meet at a bar than a woman you meet at church, but you're probably more likely to be in a loving, lasting relationship with a woman you meet at church than a woman you meet in a bar.
2007-06-12 18:59:23 · answer #6 · answered by Sarah R 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I can see a guy...jerk...actually saying that. Is it cool ? of course not but that's how some guys can be. They need to stay in the bars.
2007-06-12 18:58:35 · answer #7 · answered by ♥Kimchi♥ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why doesn't your friend want the best of both worlds?Why can't a woman attend church,and enjoy romps in the sack?
2007-06-12 21:34:04 · answer #8 · answered by Candi Apples 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Aww honey I hate it too...i'm able to think of of greater efficient issues to be doing down there than that. placed on socks...I do. Lol...it extremely is why mine is often in January. *hugs you* i desire each thing comes out ok.
2016-10-09 02:39:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think guys generalize too much....not all good girls are found in church...not all bad girls are found in bars
2007-06-12 19:03:01 · answer #10 · answered by Queenie Peavey 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋