2007-06-12 17:36:29 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Two words: Maury Povich.
If this is real, which I highly suspect it is not, then you have three options, abortion, adoption, or keeping the baby. Get a DNA test if you keep it, and get yourself some child support. And report the rape to the police if you haven' done so already.
2007-06-12 17:56:41 · answer #1 · answered by Take A Test! 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
god, that's awful. did u mean all 4 guys raped you? or if there's 4 guys that it could possibly be? i guess you mean the first one. well, if you're not too far along, you could consider abortion, cause i know it's probably pretty painful for you in that situation and if you keep the baby then you're probably will always be reminded of the painful memory. I wouldn't suggest abortion unless it was by rape or complications since i am against abortion, but it's up to you. or you could give the baby up for adoption when they're born if you want to and might be better if you aren't able to take care of them. cause it wasn't your choice to get possibly get pregnant. but if you keep the baby, you could get a dna test to see who's the father if you want to. you might want to consider going to conseling and talk to somebody that can give you clearer options about what you can do.
2007-06-13 00:55:19 · answer #2 · answered by princess4n2deep 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How many you got pregnant ?If you got pregnant below 3 months you can try to make an abortion by a specialist doctor.But if you got pregnant more than 4 months you will be a killer of your own baby if you make an abortion.Killikng your own baby in my country Indonesia is criminal act and can be punished. and jailed..You must reported the rape with an eye witness to the nearest police office,because raping is also a criminal act.r..
It is better if your pregnant 4 months or more you give birth normally and then you make a DNA test on your baby and you can know who is the dad of your baby if it is compared with DNA test of the 4 guys..
2007-06-13 00:54:53 · answer #3 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
methinks this is not a legit question but an attempt to get people excited. first off, you wouldnt refer to a rapist as a father. 2nd, you wouldnt say " i got pregnant by rape" - you would say you got raped and now you are pregnant. 3rd, you wouldnt ask strangers what to do in a such a serious situation. 4th, this is your first question - you got gangraped and then managed to open an account just to ask this question? 5th, the fact that you emphasize they are black is slightly strange - a gangrape is nasty no matter what. here's the answer i guess you are looking for so you can thumbs down it - call the police, report it, and then have an abortion. or if you wanted to thumb up, keep the baby - its not its fault.
2007-06-13 00:52:29 · answer #4 · answered by Hmmph 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
You were raped by all 4 guys? Did you take these horrible guys to court? They need to know that they can't get away with that. You probably weren't the first girl and won't be the last one that they do this to. I always thought that in the case of rape and if I were only a few weeks pregnant, that I would abort. But that's just my opinion. Because there is no way I would want to be reminded of that bad expierence and that fetus would remind me of it. And if it were to go full term and then be adopted they might come looking for their bio mom. And again, I wouldnt want to be reminded of that bad, horrible expierence.
2007-06-13 00:42:38 · answer #5 · answered by 2Bme 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I dont understand the relivance of them being black. I would think you would be more concerned with getting a disease or something instead of what race they were... or the fact of which one the father is because it was rape.
2007-06-13 00:45:02 · answer #6 · answered by Indiana Raven 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
To be honest................ if you are not ready for a child I would suggest an................ abortion any other time I would NEVER dream of suggesting this but in this situation this could cause the child to have a hard life as well as you, every time you look at the child you will think of that awful night and start to resent the child. Please think this through, please! if you insist on having this baby then if the 4 are in jail after the baby is born get DNA tests done, im not sure what this will do for you other than show you what bastard got you pregnant. Sorry for your troubles and Good Luck
2007-06-13 00:45:38 · answer #7 · answered by Heather H 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Have you gone to the police.? Have you told anyone about this.?
Do you want to have the baby.? Do you want to keep the baby.?
Do you want to press charges against the man that raped you.?
These are question you need to ask yourself. I am assuming that since you mentioned these men were black, that you are not.. If you had and kept the baby would you be ok with it having had a black father.?
2007-06-13 00:45:22 · answer #8 · answered by LadyCatherine 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Well, the race should have no bearing. Being raped is very traumatic in itself. A pregnancy is even more mentally traumatic. You need to decide whether you want to provide a life for your baby or if you think it would be more beneficial for your baby to have someone adopt him/her. There are alot of us who is interested in adopting on here, including myself. Just make sure you take your time in deciding. Don't make quick and rash decisions. You have 9 months to decide. Just remember it's not the babies fault, nor is it yours. Life works in mysterious ways and this baby maybe your greatest blessing in life, only in disquise. Good luck and safe in your decisions. We are all here to support you no matter what you decide.
2007-06-13 00:43:49 · answer #9 · answered by sunshine_moon_696 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
If you don't want the baby, abort it or put it up for adoption. Go to the cops also. The main decision is really up to you though.
2007-06-13 01:18:37 · answer #10 · answered by violentbeauty6 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋