Some moments are difficult. Although time is not likely the issue. Our thinking and beliefs are largely responsible for the unpleasantness in life.
I met someone in their 20s today with cerebal palsy. Who am I to claim that my moments are difficult? I met someone who is gay and will be killed by his family if they find out. I also met someone today who cannot live in the country of their birth because of war and bombs. Who am I to claim that my moments are difficult? Millions died today of starvation and disease. Are my moments that difficult?
Feeling sorrow for the self is a downward spiral that I encourage everyone to avoid where possible.
2007-06-12 16:22:36
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answered by guru 7
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If every moment is so difficult, there is something seriously wrong. I think you need some help fro a therapist
2007-06-12 16:19:24
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answered by Anonymous
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you can never have eternity, but at least you will always have the moment.
so it's a matter of choice to make it difficult or easy..
it's all but a matter of attitude, how you accept it's spontaneity & you own capabilities.
always keep in mind that a single moment in time can make you unhappy your entire life,
so as much as possible treat each moment like the last breathe you take.
make it as spectacular or meaningful as you can.
the moment is yours, so own up to it.
2007-06-12 16:59:28
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answered by Anonymous
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It doesnt ... I will tell you an old NA (Narcotics Anon) slogan that may help. Dont quit ten minutes before the miracle. I always remember that. And if the miracle doesnt occur in the next ten minutes, wait ten more. Because you dont want to miss it. Remembering that, you will find that those ten minutes really arent so bad. Sounds like you need a good old fashioned hug. Pax - C
2007-06-12 16:17:26
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answered by Persiphone_Hellecat 7
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Its not the moments fault. It is up to you to define if that moment is difficult or easy.
2007-06-12 16:15:05
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answered by TBECK 4
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They don`t. I can`t remember when my last difficult moment happened. All is well.
2007-06-12 16:22:31
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answered by canron4peace 6
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Ask your self "What at this moment is wrong?"
You might realize your belief in time is the problem.
2007-06-12 16:21:21
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answered by Nick C 3
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Because life can be hard. Try not to get too wrapped up in it. Just do your best and live each day as it comes.
2007-06-12 16:19:05
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answered by Anonymous
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I'm sorry. I hope whatever you are going through makes you stronger. Hang in there!
2007-06-12 16:16:49
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answered by behappy9805 4
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