the man i love is in my class im 13 he is 14 he is gay he turened me gay and ive fallen in love with him how do i tell him i love him and how do i ask him out
2007-06-12 15:52:29 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
There gonna slam you on this one "You dont Turn Gay" Dont stay in the Friends Zone too long let them know you want a relationship or it will be wierd after awhile....
2007-06-12 15:55:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please, how did he "turn" you gay? By feeding you female
hormones? By hypnotising you? By secret injections of some
evil formula? Witchcraft? the easter bunny?
C'mon man. Time for a little honesty here.
He didn't turn you gay. No one did or can do that. No one can
define you BUT YOU!
did you have sex and like it? or had you been thinking about
him for a long time?
Seriously, don't sweat the labels. they are just labels and
no one word can totally summarize all the wonderful things that make you special, that make you human, or that make you happy.
Sometimes guys never figure out there sexuality till they are
in their forties or fifties, after they have done what "society"
told them to do, Other guys may think they are gay early on
and in their forties or fifties decide they aren't.
So give yourself some time. And don't worry about the
labels. Just be yourself, and be the best freind you can,
no matter what.
Many times our fears are not justified, you can simply
tell him and ask him out...just don't force the issue (or force him to do something he doesn't...likewise do not allow
yourself to be forced or used...)
If he isn't intersted you will meet somene, and if he is...
you could be onto the best times of your life! But trust the universe and trust yourself.
best wishes, no matter what...
2007-06-13 16:03:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off you can't TURN gay. So either you are lieing about this story or you are just figuring out that its ok to be this way and you are now comfortable to come out.
As for the other part of the question.... Sit him down and talk to him. Explain to him that you like boys and you'd like to do a little exploring with him. Invite him somewhere like the movies or something.
Good luck!
2007-06-13 09:54:33 · answer #3 · answered by NCIS ♥ Addict 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like mentioned above, you don't turn gay.
However, I understand that you mean he made you realize you are gay and you are now in love with him. Why not try writing him a letter? A love letter. I think that'd be really sweet. I understand if you think that's way too corny, though.
You could always try the classic approach. Call him, go up to him, IM him, etc. and just say "I really like you. Would you be interested in maybe going out next Friday?" Or whatever.
2007-06-12 22:57:16 · answer #4 · answered by Diavola 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You probably are not really gay. You are 13 and filled with raging hormones. You probably never had sex with anyone else before and it felt so good you think that it is love. Or he just turned you on and you have fantasies about him. It is not at all unusual. You do not have to come out of the closet.
Just take it easy. You do not have to make life altering decisions at 13.
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2007-06-12 23:08:06 · answer #5 · answered by Jacob W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't just "turn gay". And, I think that you are a little young to be jumping into any relationship. Don't make any decisions now. Talk to a counselor or something. I am not saying you are not gay. You could very well be. You are young. Give your sexuality a chance to develop before you start to explore it.
You have plenty of time!
2007-06-12 22:59:14 · answer #6 · answered by Pammie aka Lil Miss Perky 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow...as everybody else said and i will say it nobody turned me anything. yes, when i realized that i liked girls and then started crushin on my friend it sucked. nobody turned me that way and someday if i find my friend is gay i know that no matter what i am who i am regardless of his sexual orientation. i guess it is easier to say that someone turned you that way so you don't have to deal with feelings. im 15 and even i think that you are way to young to be in love..i am not sure if i am old enough. but if he is gay just straight up tell him you are attracted to him and ask him if he wants to go out. if he says he just likes you as a friend then ok. be a friend and now you have someone to talk to about things. everyone needs a person in their life that they can talk to. good luck
2007-06-12 23:07:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one can turn you gay. You either are or your aren't. The only difference is in discovering who you are.
And in case no one has figured it out, you just like making up stories. Your next question says you're 10 and gay.
Get a life, guy.
2007-06-12 22:56:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, he didn't turn you gay. You either are, or you aren't. There is no two ways, about it, and at thirteen, who really knows what love is? What you are feeling is no doubt, real, but I wouldn't be so quick, to call it love. Nevertheless, confront him, and go from there. It is really, that simple, and what ever you do, be safe. I wish, you and your friend, well.
2007-06-12 23:09:37 · answer #9 · answered by whatnext 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all Congratulations on figuring out your feelings for your friend.
Why don't you just tell him that you've developed a "Crush" on him and ask if he feels likewise. Being shy or coy will not help this situation. He might not be interested, but you'll never know if you don't swallow your pride and ask. Best of luck to you.
2007-06-12 23:13:16 · answer #10 · answered by Testika Filch Milquetoast 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋