When I met my friend's husband, he was interested in dating me and I wasn't, he was a nice guy so I thought I introduce him to my friend because they have a lot in common. I introduced him to my friend but I didn't tell her he asked me out cos she is very insecure, they got together and decided to get married. Stupidly, he told her he asked me out, we went on 1 date and nothing happened so I didn't get the point of it. Now my friend is really insecure, and she is uncomfortable when I talk to him, she still wants me to be her friend but she doesn't want me to have anything to do with her husband. I have started avoiding her I don't know if I should retain the friendship or just move on. It is really hard dealing with her and feeling all that tension.
2007-06-12 14:01:59 · 8 answers · asked by I B lady O 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Friendship is based on trust. Evidently, she was not your friend to begin with.
2007-06-12 14:06:58 · answer #1 · answered by LOLO W 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Passing on a great guy to your friend bec you didn't click with him is the greatest thing to do. It is done all the time. She should realize that. Guys usually ask a woman out the first time bec he finds her interesting, cute, common interests, or combo of all those. But instead of shutting him down, you fixed him up with a friend with whom he did click I tried to date this cute gal in college, but she was a big city girl and thought I was a bit of a hick. She fixed me up with a good friend of hers with similar background as mine, and we did click, dated all thru college and got married after grad.
2007-06-12 15:29:31 · answer #2 · answered by old beatnik 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her the truth you where NOT interested in him and it was 1 date! you could see they (your friend) would be great together and introduced them, and guess what ? you where right, they got married!!
I hope she can figure this out and not loose a good friend like you!
2007-06-12 14:19:19 · answer #3 · answered by horsedance5 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Better to move on until she gets some help for this problem, also it'd be bad if you and him started discussing the marriage problem and feelings developed.After all, you DID see something in him to make you want to go out on at least one date.
2007-06-12 14:08:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
bleh, my suggestion would be to try talking it out with her. tell her it's in the past and that you would never even think of trying to get him back. if this doesn't set her at ease then I'm afraid to say that maybe some distance would be the best choice. no one needs to have to deal with that drama, especially from their friends.
2007-06-12 14:07:40 · answer #5 · answered by asguard 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay away from them, is for the best. Now they are married so if I were you I'll stay away not to cause friction in their marriage. For me marriage is sacred, so I will rather loose a friendship that brake up a marriage....
2007-06-12 14:09:17 · answer #6 · answered by Belle 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
She was your freind first.I dont blame her for feeling a bit weird.Just be her freind and to hell with him.As you said you didnt want him any way right.so whats wrong with showing a little respect for your freinds feeling?
2007-06-12 14:08:39 · answer #7 · answered by butterflyspy 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
well i guess u lost him and that wrong to go out wit somebodys husband.iam not trying to be mean but i think u should move on wit your life
2007-06-12 14:07:57 · answer #8 · answered by ~!!!!soccerlover!!!!!~ 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋