I Think I Hate Myself......?

Question

Okay, I am 14 and I hate myself. My family is always yelling at me because everything is my fault and it really is. I hate the way I act and how lazy and dumb I am. People tell me that I am awesome, but then they end up getting in fights with me. It's always m fault and I can't stand it anymore. grrrrr. I can't just change so suddenly!When I was 13 I had sex with my sister's best friend and then I thought I was pregnant, I am such an idiot. I wish I could start my life over, but I can't. Nobody has to answer this, I just had to let it out.......

My family pretty much has abondoned me from their lives, and my life DOES suck.

Answer 1

you can't hate yourself.... you're all you've got....
think what if a day come when all your friends and family may abandon you... if u love urself, i think u can manage to deal like many other ppl did...
i'm not bringin' u down hunny i'm just saying u gotta be ready for the worst... dunt sit there and say ( hey! my life sucks!) instead think (hey ! it's somehow better than so and so and so )

Answer 2

Sorry, you post it you'll get answers. Every teenager hates themselves or their life at some time. As I recall I spent about seven years doing it. As for starting your life over, you really haven't started it yet. When you're done with school and out in the real world no one cares what you did when you were 13 or 14. Just think about the kind of person you'd like to be, then each day try to get closer to that goal. It doesn't have to happen suddenly, and just making the effort will make ou feel better.

Answer 3

You can start your life over at any moment. Look we all make mistakes in life that is how we learn, that is how we grow. Do not worry about the past you cannot change that the only thing you can change is the future. Sit down with your parents and say look I need some help there are things that are causing me problems, and I need your love and guidance., most of all I need someone to talk to. Second though first start with parent you have the best report with would guess Mom and let them take or talk with the other. Trust me for every mistake or problem in life there has been hundreds of others that have made them, and lived through it, and you can to. best of luck

Answer 4

It is always good to vent and get it out.
1st thing you need to do and I have found helpful to me is start a diary mind you I am 30!! This always helps me.
Think of things that you need to change and work on.
First I would say you are 13 and you do not need to be sleeping with anybody I know that you are young and want to try new things I have been there and done this too but you getting pregnant now will ruin all your child hood years.
You need to focus on what you think that you are doing wrong and act on it. You will learn in life that it is not always easy being yourself but in the long run you will appreaciate yourself more id you are honest with your self
Remember this saying
H.onesty explains itself
O.beying and offering listening and helping others
Willing to learn new things
this will help you
I wish yout the best of luck
Hang in there it will get better

Answer 5

Family's will yell at us period at some point of time. Cause no ones perfect. To parents its's almost always the kids faults. I cant tell abt how u act, because i never been with you to know. but just dont sleep with any one eles partner. I'm sure you will be fine. Just take dedication and ambition to want to change, cause without it, u will be the same.

Answer 6

hey swittie all that will go the moment u do one simple thing. love yourself. i waz also like that. add low self esteem to that and the whole world hated me! but the moment i started to like and love who i am n really appreciate maself. life became more fun. everyone has something they dont like about themselves even celebs but what matters is how u cope with it. u can start afresh but u hav to really make the decison to.