my 57 year old healthy husband seems to have lost his desire for sex, is that normal?

Answer 1

I don't see this as an abnormal problem because of his age. However, to be safe, it would be best if you could both consult with a physician together as a precautionary measure and ask your husband if there are there any pressures, emotional or health problems that could be inducing this condition.

Hope your husband is well!

Answer 2

Seems to be some confusion here. I think a Dr. is needed. BUT, you didn't say he had trouble "functioning", you said he didn't have desire. The pills are won't make him want sex...they just give him an erection. I think most people think those pills do more than they do. They just put the blood flow in the right places...that's all.

Hormones change as we get older and that's one of the things that happens. Older people just don't feel all that compelled to have sex. It's natural. It's basically nature's way of telling you that you are too old to have children, thus there's no biological reason to have sex.

I believe that a Dr. can give hormone replacement to extend his natural desire. I have a feeling that kind of treatment is expensive and not covered by insurance.

It's perfectly normal, doesn't mean he doesn't love you, is cheating, is lying or anything other than he's aging naturally.

If he or you think it's a problem or distruptive in your relationship..then there are things you can do. A Dr. can help with that, but make sure they explain exactly what the results are of anything they prescribe....as you can see there's confusion regarding that.

Answer 3

Midlife crisis. He's probably thinking a lot about his life..you know..his career and if he made good choices. this is also the time when your youth is catching up to you in aches and pains. Have you tried tactfully, casually mentioning it? It could be that simple. Otherwise, I would look for tell tale signs of...the unthinkable. Sorry, but it happens. If he's going out for long periods, taking a shower more often, suddenly buying a new shirt? Is he smiley or looking depressed? Or it could also be a medical problem. Is he taking any meds? Good luck.

Answer 4

Only if a mate has become overweight, boring, or stressed out about other things. I've found most 50-somethings want it more, as it's the 'midlife crisis' period and they are craving more from trophy style Barbie dolls. Sad, but true.
'Normal' in your case is rare, but possible. Have him check with a doctor.

Answer 5

In short, NO.
Loss of sex drive at that age is not normal. It could be any number of things.
I would start by trying to get him talking about it. From there, you might consider couples counselling or medical help.

Answer 6

Yes it`s normal it`s slowing down at that age but there are magic pills for that now. No reasons to live a life with no fun.

Answer 7

Yes it is. My mother says her husband in the sex department is no longer good for nothing. He is 67 but she says he's been like that for years. She says that if he were to try he can't.

Answer 8

No, he lost desire to have sex with you!..I'm sure if some other woman offers him sex he will jump right on it!
Sorry but is the truth!

Answer 9

Yes, it does slow down with age, but still have him check with his doctor.

Answer 10

well it does happen...especially if he is feeling down on himself...or taking certain medications....or..and I hate to say this...but if he is cheating..could be physical..could be mentally..could be lots of things...talk to I mean talk with him....see if he gives you an honest answer ...see if he's willing to go to t he MD....this will tell you more....communication is always the key