I feel really silly asking this question but, me and my husband have been seperated for over a year know but have been seeing each other on and off. On Dec 3, I had sexual relations with another man and on the 12th I had my period which lasted about 4 days which i normal for me. On the 23rd my husband came home and that whole week of christmas until the 30th we had intercourse. On the 14th of January I found out I was pregnant. My question is I am worried who the father is, I wan it to be my ex-husbands. I have had two ultrasounds and they have both been very accurate. I had one at 10 weeks and one at 19 weeks and both due dates have been Sept. 18th. I am not asking this for someone to talk down on me b/c we are seperated and getting our divorce in a couple of weeks. I have not been with anyone else since then and he is engaged to be married so this is not a put down question. Thanks for your help
2007-06-12 12:09:33 · 9 answers · asked by angie M 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Well you already answered your own question. A due date of Sept 18 would give you a conception date during the week your ex husband was with you. But was the 12th the last time you had relations with the other man? If it was, consider him out. I concieved Dec 12-13 and my due date is Sept 5...
The timing definitely changes from those dates compared to yours!
Congrats on you and your ex having a baby!
2007-06-12 15:19:22 · answer #1 · answered by RitzFitz29 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is your ex-husbands. There is no way that the other man could have got you pregnant if you had your period after intercourse. You would have been ovulating exactly around the time your ex-husband was home.
2007-06-12 19:17:53 · answer #2 · answered by Shannon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Considering you had your period after you had sex with the other man, odds are in favor that this is your ex's baby. It is possible that the period was a fluke, but then your due date would be a full month earlier - and your ultrasounds would all have to be wrong - which is highly unlikely.
If you aren't sure, have a DNA test after the birth.
2007-06-12 19:14:22 · answer #3 · answered by Take A Test! 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My kids birthday's are September 18th and 20th. My husband and I both have a week of vacation the week between Christmas and New Years and it is when we conceived both kids. Holiday parties get to me! I would bet your ex is the father. I hope everything works out.
2007-06-12 19:41:37 · answer #4 · answered by Laurie W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My boyfriend came home on the 22nd of dec. on his military leave and was here till the 7th of Jan...sometime during that time i became pregnant...and im due Sept.20th...which is two days after you...so im sure its your ex-husbands...seeing as you also had your period, after having sex with the other guy.
2007-06-12 19:36:20 · answer #5 · answered by Mike's Baby* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Conception was around December 26. It is your ex-husbands.
2007-06-12 19:14:35 · answer #6 · answered by Betsy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say your ex husband is the father. You sound like a mature woman, you should be careful when having sex with multiple partners. You don't want to catch anything.
2007-06-12 19:19:20 · answer #7 · answered by Jessica C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You would have gotten pregnant right around Christmas, so it would be your husbands. I calculated it and your pregnancy matches up with your LMP of December 12th.
2007-06-12 19:13:52 · answer #8 · answered by Melissa 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its your ex husband but Im not sure.
2007-06-12 19:14:43 · answer #9 · answered by crazy_cat_lady 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋