Sex in Marriage?

Question

How often would you say is normal to have sex with your husband, how often do they really want it?

Answer 1

Each person has a different sex drive. In Marriage you have to find an even ground. Sometimes you have to get in the mood when you are not for him and same for her. It is give and take. And then your sex drive can change through the years. My husband had a high sex drive and mine was lower than his. Then he got a low sex drive so mine was higher than his. It is all give and take and working it out. So I would say there is no normal!

Answer 2

It depends on age and how long you've been married. If you just got married and are in your early 20s it is not unusual for a married couple to have sex 10-15 times a week, for the first few months.

If you're in your 30s or 40s and have been married 10-20 years, then maybe 3-4 times a week, average.

If you're in your 60s and have been married for 40 years, it might just be once a week average (yes, people in their 60s still have sex, and have a great time with it too).

Answer 3

I don't necessarily think there's a 'normal'. Alot of couples have sex a few times a year and are happy with that. Others, every day. It just depends on the couple. But statistically, I'd say average is about 2-5 times a week.

Answer 4

For some 2 to 3 times a week is normal. Others 2 to 3 times a month is normal. As far as how much they want it. It necessarily isn't always the man who wants more.

Answer 5

that all depend on the guy...how often did you have sex before yougot married... take that number divide by 2 and you should be having sex a little more than that number. if you waited until marriage to have sex with eachother, well you should be screwing like rabbits for about a year. me i get it 2 times a day if im lucky. i would like it 3 times a day...

Answer 6

It depends on the man. For some 2 or 3 times a week is good. But for others it is everyday. Average is 2 times a week. I saw that on a show. I personally have never told my man no, and we have been married for over 8 years.

Answer 7

3 or 4 times a week is normal for me. I have been with my husband for almost 14 years and we have been married for 8 years. When we first met we were doing it everyday....after having a child and both working full time jobs it has decreased. But I'm happy with it now.

Answer 8

Prior to marriage, it was twice a day, every day. Now, it's whenever he's wanting it. (married 7 years this week!) I've never refused his desires. I've just recently started initiating, and we've recently purchased some "toys"..... it just keeps getting more fun.. it's not the frequency that's the factor, it's the adventures along the way.
*Foreplay is important too... you can do that all day long!

Answer 9

(From your previous questions) You have said you said that you have a young lover who is rather sexually aggressive, but wants only on his terms. If his schedule for his needs doesnt meet yours, then you may have to consider finding a lover who is moreconsiderate of your needs and desires.

Think of who should be satisfying whom. I believe a man is responsible for pleasing the lady. Also, there is a perspective that the two of you may be missing. As young lovers enjoy "doing it" , older lovers enjoy seduction. Could it be that seduction is what is missing? OR May it be that the young lover does not fully appreciate the treasure of a mature, experienced wanting more passion?

Decide what YOU want, Im sure there are lovers out there that are willing to satisfy you.

Answer 10

"THEY ARE MEN" NOT STATISTICS. How often do you want it? Why not more?

If your man wants more or less sex, you need to be making arrangements with him and compromise, rather than asking YA PEOPLE.

Age, outlook on sex, how good or bad it is: All these are factors as to how often some people want sex.

Good Luck.