2007-06-12 09:32:54 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Well it sounds like you already told yourself. Great step. But you might want to tell the people that mean the most to you as the opportunity arrises. There are some people you just tell, like I told my mom. Then there are other people that I tell as the opportunity arrises, like a coworker who asks if i'm married or about my husband.
2007-06-12 09:37:54 · answer #1 · answered by momaab 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Lol! I love it when people feel obligated to tell everyone they're gay. Being gay and out doesn't necessarily mean you're obligated to tell everyone you see in passing. But if relationships and such come up in a conversation don't deny the fact. Just talk about it casually and maturely (and try to refrain from telling everyone about your sexual escapades in the process! Straight people wouldn't necessarily do it so gay people shouldn't either! I had that happen to me once...A gay man told me he was gay then went on to tell me about all his sexual excursions. I'm gay and even I was turned off by the whole thing! Talking in graphic detail about who you did the 'dirty deed' with and how you went about doing it just isn't socially acceptable in certain situations!)
2007-06-12 16:56:10 · answer #2 · answered by Mr. Sexi Man 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The Gay Person you have a Crush on is a good place to start...
2007-06-12 16:37:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well who are the options?!? Your wife, husband? Mother, or father? Brother or Sister? Why not just gather them all together for a nice dinner and just "spill the beans" to them all at once?!?
2007-06-12 16:48:18 · answer #4 · answered by ItalianPrincess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DO YOU GUYS COME ON HERE AND DO THIS AT THE SAME TIME SEE OTHER QUESTIONS ABOUT THIS(not trying to be rude) I think you should tell who you feel you need to tell, your family are thoughs who love you, and care about you
2007-06-12 16:40:18 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You all ready told alot of people not weigh out who you want to next, friends will be a good start.
2007-06-12 17:10:55 · answer #6 · answered by kanei 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is really up to you, but I think you should tell someone you trust, someone who wont dudge you. I just recently told one of my best friends, and she was really supportive. Good luck. email me if you like: zelda_link85@yahoo.com
2007-06-12 17:51:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ditto, you just have, but why do you have to tell any body apart maybe your future partner or friends..........does any one else need to have the inside info? I am straight but I never discussed my sex life and choices with my parents as I dont expect them to share theirs with me....good luck
2007-06-12 16:39:22 · answer #8 · answered by turkeyhug 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The person you would most like to enjoy pleasure with... that would be a good start.
2007-06-12 16:42:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi,
You just told everybody in this section, and congradulations in coming out, you will feel better now that you're out.
2007-06-12 16:36:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋