I just want to be spiritual today but i can't feel that right now.
2007-06-12 08:47:14 · 30 answers · asked by DARIA. - JOINED MAY 2006 7 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Yes, sometimes unconditional love doesn't work. I think it hurts the most because you love them to much. I'm emotionally fragile a lot of times and take to seriously my relationship with my kids. Sometimes I feel that I am getting payback for how I treated my Dad. My parents were divorced when I was two and my Dad didn't have much to do with me so I sort of put him aside. It was wrong what I did and have no way of making up for it because he died a few years ago. We did patch up our differences eventually. What bothers me to this day is I don't know if he loved me. So many times we get so selfish about our own emotions and forget about the feelings of our loved ones.
2007-06-12 08:55:56 · answer #1 · answered by SgtMoto 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
we are the most vulnerable to the ones that we love the most, hense the reason they can hurt us so badly. The answer is not to cease to love but to use the pain to make us stronger as a metal worker uses fire or intense heat to temper the blade of a fine sword. Because we have no real choice but to bear the pain we are given, I choose to use it to increase my power or strength. You can too friend. Find your center and go from there. Good Luck. Blessed Be.
2007-06-12 15:53:56 · answer #2 · answered by Praire Crone 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
people that you love the most have the ability to hurt you more than people you don't care about. they get closer and mean more to you so it hurts worse when they do something to you. if it's someone you don't really know or care for it's not as personal and it's not really breaking any trust.
"loving someone is giving them the ability to hurt you...but knowing that they won't"
2007-06-12 15:50:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes and you hurt the people you love the most too. they see the real you and you take everything out on them whether you mean to or not
2007-06-12 15:50:50 · answer #4 · answered by Ima Stressed Out 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Sometimes in life you get betrayed by someone you know personally and it hurts more than anything else.
2007-06-12 15:50:19 · answer #5 · answered by BKool 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, those are the ones who can really cut you deep, and leave lasting scars as well....sorry to hear that, you are feeling, a bit off today... hope you feel better!
2007-06-12 15:54:19 · answer #6 · answered by Rowan 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it hurts the most because they mean everything to you!
2007-06-12 15:49:50 · answer #7 · answered by Ashley 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes.
2007-06-12 15:49:40 · answer #8 · answered by hello world 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yup so true. the people that you hate will be mean to you infront of you and the people that you love will stab you in the back when you never see it coming
2007-06-13 21:42:51 · answer #9 · answered by ♥heaven help us♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course, just because you care about your relationship more. I mean, imagine it: someone you don't know calls you mean or someone you really care about calls you mean. What would be more hurtful to you?
2007-06-12 15:50:43 · answer #10 · answered by shoppinglvr7 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋