2007-06-12 07:29:20 · 25 answers · asked by coleen1018 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
There is no best way for this. Think about how you truley feel about this other person and evaluate how your life would be without the one your with. It could just be a lust thing and not a love thing. If your spouse is loves you then think about what your about to lose. If by chance you want out of the relationship then end it. Don't put the blame on your spouse because the only person to who made this decision was you.
2007-06-12 07:48:19 · answer #1 · answered by tazzyp01 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Being honest of course is the best thing to do. It's not your fault you developed feelings for someone else. I'm sure you didn't intend for this to happen; sometimes, it just does. It's not his fault either, that you fell for someone else. If this other person makes you happy, and your husband doesn't, then you need to tell him, but only if you're sure. You've already cheated on him, so either way, your relationship with your husband will never be the same. If you feel this strongly about this other person, then you shouldn't have to hide it. If you don't, and you're just caught up in the moment, then you don't deserve the husband you have now anyway.
2007-06-12 07:39:55 · answer #2 · answered by ron-D 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Unless your spouse has cheated on you or is engaged in other conduct that wasn't revealed while dating, there is no reason.
If that is the case, you should talk about it together and come to a conciliatory agreement.
If it isn't the case and may be a sexual thing, that too, should be talked about.
Unless you thought marriage was going to be a 'bowl of cherries' you got it all wrong.
Remember the vows, "for better or worse", "in health and sickness"
The bottom line is if nothing is wrong with the marriage, don't start something that you may regret.
2007-06-12 07:41:14 · answer #3 · answered by Yafooey! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your buddy ought to handle him like he's married using fact extremely, he's married. Off limits. If he's prepared to cheat then he's a liar and yep, a cheat. He additionally has no credibility or integrity and does not deserve his spouse and in all probability youngsters. no longer something good ever comes from having an affair with yet somebody else who's in touch or married. His actual solid inclination is in the direction of being stupid. If he desires to be unmarried then he ought to get his thumb out and be unmarried. Your buddy could do properly to maintain herself an excellent style of emotional discomfort by completely ignoring this guy.
2016-10-17 01:10:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honesty is always the best way to tell someone how you feel,grant it she'll be hurt,and the telling her part will be one of the most scariest conversation you've ever had,but it's one of those times when you have to learn to suck it up and face the fear,take the cookie as it crumbles cause if you handle this any other way it won't be to your advantage later down the road. Karma can be a "B----
2007-06-12 07:47:23 · answer #5 · answered by Sidetracked0260 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
the best way to say is straight from you heart...look this may be hard to say, but say why you do not want to be with your spouse then explain that you are in love with another person. vala. oh and some pointers may be say it in a nice way. might i suggest during a calm moment like night time when the body is more relaxed that way you wont have so much tension.
2007-06-12 07:36:24 · answer #6 · answered by in deguise 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Uhmm i don't know just do it i guess but if i were to suggest something do it in person and not over the phone give him that respect at least to do it to face and just explain it him why and how it happened i mean they at least deserve that much be civil and expect him to hurt or whatever but it's life do you what have to and move on..
2007-06-12 07:34:23 · answer #7 · answered by Cookie Monster!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say what you want but leave it at that. Dont tolerate any harsh behavior. Your both adults and hurting someones feelings doesnt change that. If he goes "crazy" call it. See ya.
Prepare yourself for the worst hope for the best. He'll find someone better and so will you.
2007-06-12 07:44:15 · answer #8 · answered by liddycaliente 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
When you find out "this best way", drop me a line. Because quite frankly...when you find that then finding the Holy Grail, a unicorn and Judge Crater and Amelia Earhart should be a snap.
2007-06-12 07:33:59 · answer #9 · answered by Quasimodo 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
ne what u say it, its gunna hurt. but the best thing to say, is the truth and not avoid it and u b stuck somewhere that u dont want to be.. best thing to say would b... things just arent the same, we have btoh changed since we fell im love and ur no longer the person that i can see me being with for the rest of my life, and i think we should move on... good luck
2007-06-12 07:35:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋