hiya, we are hopping to ttc another little one, but i cant help but be very hesitant about the whole idea.
see i didnt have to really try at all, to fall pregnant with my girls, but the fact this time we are actually really thinking about ttc, it is scaring me.
for our girls it was a case of, get married, then in the next 3 yrs have 2 babies lol (been married 3 yrs in march passed).
has anyone else been like that. It had been very easy for them to fall pregnant, then when it came to the second little one or 3rd+ little one, you felt so unsure about the whole idea, because you are actually 'having' to ttc?.
only genuine replies please,
thanks
xx
2007-06-12 07:05:12 · 4 answers · asked by confide_in_me83 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
I became pregnant with our first child when after we'd been married about 10 months; unfortunately, that pregnancy ended in miscarriage. We then went on to ttc for almost two years before getting pregnant again. Our son is almost 20 months and we've been ttc again for over a year now. It's hard, very hard really to ttc. It can be very frustrating. I suggest, if time isn't really an issue to start slowing, end the birth control and let what happens happen. We did that for a year this time around. If you do decide to learn more about trying to conceive I would make an appointment with your doctor. Many doctors want to give you a physical before you start trying. The doctor can talk to you about your cycle and give you some tips to try. I'd also visit www.fertilityfriend.com to learn more about fertility and your body. Hopefully, it'll be a walk in the park for you. You have a good chance of it happening easily but, if it doesn't rest assured. Even if it takes a while . . . it's worth the wait!!!
I would think it's very normal to feel the way you're feeling in fact, that's why we took so long to actively this time because it is pressure. Now, I'm using fertility drugs again . . . hopefully, this will do it for us.
Good Luck!
2007-06-12 07:14:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally think that it is health for you to be worried. My sister has had two and is considering having a third and she is having the same worries.
Just remember it is a normal reaction to be worried, about ttc, having he baby and adding to your family.
Talk to your husband and see how he feels and talk it over with him and tell him about your worries.
2007-06-12 16:45:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
actually ttc makes it real that much sooner, its normal to feel apprehensive. If you are really freaked out, take a break for a few months to sort out your feelings and try again.
2007-06-12 14:12:12 · answer #3 · answered by parental unit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
think we all have these litle fears dont waoory its natural, i was the same lol 18 weeks now and over moon
2007-06-12 14:09:17 · answer #4 · answered by yummynottsmummy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋