Maybe by your explanation some light will be put on this issue and more people can understand it and (hopefully) avoid it in the future.
2007-06-12 06:46:49 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I needed to feel wanted again. There comes a time in a persons life when you need to feel sexy, young and desireable.
2007-06-12 07:01:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
I cheated b/c we had different definitions of cheating. I didn't consider that cheating--he did.
I cheated b/c I was too young to know how to express. I tried to explain that I didn't want to be in a committed relationship; he responded with too bad b/c he did. I didn't know how to communicate what I was feeling.
During those young years, I cheated b/c I knew I couldn't get caught. He lived far away. This happens a lot with military relationships. He'd never know b/c as we all know--what happens in Vegas....
I cheated b/c I'd been cheated on in my last relationship and wanted to make sure--if I repeatedly let him know I wasn't that into him, he would know it wasn't that serious. The moment he wanted it to be serious, I cheated b/c I wanted him to realize that I wasn't going to be in that position again. I wasn't going to be vulnerable enough to be cheated on. I was getting revenge on an ex through him and he had nothing to do with it. I merely didn't want him to think of me as serious. I didn't want to be the shoulder he cried on, manipulated to the point of feeling if I dumped him he would kill himself. I wanted him to think I was flightly, fickle and not at all the kind of girl you'd want to lean on.
I cheated b/c we weren't talking to each other. We had completely broken up even though we hadn't had the conversation. Both parties understood that we were breaking up--but neither of us actually said it. I hadn't spoken or seen him for 2 months. I moved on. I wasn't able to contact him for 2 more months, but honestly I wasn't trying very hard since I moved on.
I cheated b/c I didn't love him and I knew he wasn't right for me anyway. When the opportunity arose I took it. And honestly I wasn't thinking of my significant other at all. It had nothing to do with them--everything to do with me. I wanted out and didn't have the communication skills to talk about it like an adult.
I've had friends who cheated and told meaningless sex doesn't count. If its sex just for sex and there are no feelings, it doesn't affect the relationship. It's like If we had agreed on an "open" relationship. We didn't agree but we might have if we'd talked about it. Which would mean that its ok as long as the emotion isn't there.
The last time I cheated I was scared. I knew my boyfriend was going to propose and we had already started wedding planning. I'd cheated before--what if I got married and suddenly my ex called and wanted me back? What would I do? Would I cheat on a husband?? A boyfriend lacks the commitment that a husband does. SO I called the ex to see how far it would go. I planned the opportunity to cheat to see I was the "marriage kind". My boyfriend would have considered that cheating but I didn't and it gave me the closure to know that if he called me back, I would be able to look back on my ex with fond memories but not risk the relationship I have for it.
2007-06-12 07:07:12 · answer #2 · answered by phantom_of_valkyrie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i replaced into at a factor interior the courting the place i replaced into thinking it and that i've got been given very below the effect of alcohol and replaced into smoking pot with a guy pal who we've been suited acquaintances for over 5 years and we the two had solid thoughts for one greater and it ultimately got here out and that i ended up cheating on my boyfriend with him with the aid of fact my pal concept I deserved greater advantageous and that i had thoughts for him and issues occurred......It replaced into incorrect and that i on no account ought to have accomplished it i lost my boyfriend and my suited pal of over 5 years and relationship him for 11/2 years for something so stupid! i visit on no account do it back!!!!!!!!!!!!
2016-12-12 19:09:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was looking for someone to connect with, someone to respect me, someone to openly love me, someone to share that side of me with and also to hurt my ex husband for all the beatings he gave me.
2007-06-12 06:56:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
because as much i told my husband what I enjoyed he never did it as long as he got what he wanted he was fine besides he was a jerk so now he is my ex
2007-06-12 06:50:45 · answer #5 · answered by ohmy 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
because I wasn't emotionally happy.
2007-06-12 07:39:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first time.... she was 10 yrs older, had great legs and a great butt, loved oral.
second time....she just started kissing me and next thing I knew she was giving me oral.
2007-06-12 06:56:26 · answer #7 · answered by lost 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I needed to get laid
2007-06-12 06:50:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
because i wanted more
2007-06-12 06:55:16 · answer #9 · answered by who are you anyway?? 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's in my blood.
2007-06-12 07:24:39 · answer #10 · answered by mrsknowitall 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋