my friend have this question why she feel bad after a miscarriage?

Question

she has a miscarriage 2 day,s ago and she feel guilty because she feel she didn,t take care of

Answer 1

You can get post partum depression after a miscarriage. Hormonal thing.

Answer 2

It is perfectly normal to feel sad, guilty, confused, or depressed after a miscarriage. You have lost a child, whether you were only carrying that child for a few weeks or for months, it still hurts. With time, the pain will clear, but it will always be there. There are support groups out there, and it might be a good idea to look into one.
Also, the doctor may have some insight as to why it happened. Some women are just not able to carry a child to term. It would be a good idea to have a checkup done.

Answer 3

A girl that I used to date had a miscarriage within the first trimester. She took care of herself doing the usual stuff like vitamins, healthy food, etc. Sometimes miscarriages just happen. I have an aunt who had four miscarriages before she had her one and only daughter. Just tell your friend not beat herself up over this. Depending on what you mean by not taking care of herself, I doubt there's anything the she did personally that caused it. I am very sorry to hear about the miscarriage, though, because I know how much it hurts. Take care.

Answer 4

It's a very common thing to feel after a miscarriage. I've had 4 of them in my lifetime and it's very upsetting. Have her talk to her doctor about how she is feeling. The doc can even prescribe anti-depressants that she can take until she gets over her grief. Right now she needs your love as a friend and all the positive support she can get.

Answer 5

sometimes miscarriages happen despite what kind of care you took of yourself and the baby. sometimes theres just nothing you could have done to prevent them and this happens the older you get and the thinner you are. it also happens if there are messed up chromosomes in the embryo so that you don't have a baby that can't function properly. tell her not to feel too guilty because theres no way of knowing whether this was her fault or not. its natural to feel sad/guilty about losing a child because it really is like losing a little bit of yourself. let her have time to mourn but she will get over it eventually. :)

Answer 6

Ive been through this. Try not to feel guilty. I know its hard but I feel it was in gods plan to bring me the children I have now. Things will get better. It wasnt your fault. Even if we dont always understand I believe everything happens for a reason. Talk to your friends,family, a counselor if you need to. It will help.

Answer 7

tell your friend not to feel guilty . there is nothing you can do or not do to stop a miscarriage. i'm a nurse. i have seen this happen a million times. usually it means there is something really wrong with the baby and it's just not meant to be. tell your friend to give herself a break, grieve the loss, but honestly, there is absolutely nothing she could have done to prevent this from happening.

Answer 8

ive never been pregnant, but i understand that your friend feels this way. she should find a suport group online or go to counseling. the reason she miscarried may not be because she didnt take care o it well, miscarriage happens. good luck.

Answer 9

there was proly nothin that she couldve done...its normal to feel bad...this is somethin big....but still there r some things that happen to ur body....she couldve been 2 small or 2 big to carry a child properly....most ppl who have miscarriages get pregnant again so tell her not to give up now!!

Answer 10

My wife and i went thru this a year ago. It has to do with the fact that she cared for her child long before she/he was born.She had a connection with her child as I did and my wife with ours. We know we have a child , our little angel Sean.

God Bless Her, she will need time and comfort from you and family.