If I am in the bathroom or Bedroom. He's always trying to catch me naked alone. But, when were together he is very critical about my breasts34DD....he says my body is wierd because mine are pale in color. Does anybody else have a problem with their husband like this?
2007-06-12 06:28:49 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
hahaha he's your husband isn't he allowed to look?
2007-06-12 06:33:21 · answer #1 · answered by Susana M. 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
He's just being insecure about the whole thing. He's most likely to even think that he's a lucky man that his wife has a great body. Look if he doesn't like your body or critical about it then why peek? he might also have some voyeurism fetish, thats why he is peeking. Either ways don't worry about it, walk around the house freely!
2007-06-12 06:46:27 · answer #2 · answered by Cerealkiller 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it is very disrespectful for him to not permit you privacy in the bathroom. I would consider getting a better lock for the bathroom door, but first I would resort to telling him that it bothers me & hope he listens.
It is also disrespectful for him to make fun of the way you look, and certainly "pale" or "34DD" is not a defect! Why would he date you, have sex with you, and marry you if all the while he didn't think you were attractive? You sound perfectly fine to me.
However, I do think it is okay if he wants to look at you when you're naked in the bedroom. I mean, how would you ever have sex, if he were not permitted to see you naked in the bedroom?
2007-06-12 06:37:22 · answer #3 · answered by Kestra SpiritNova 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be comfortable in your own skin no one has a perfect body and I'm sure your hubby has a few flaws here or there that he wouldn't want you pointing out. Maybe he wants to catch you in the nude because he likes the view who knows husbands do weird stuff all the time.
2007-06-12 06:38:33 · answer #4 · answered by mrsknowitall 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My advice? If he finds it necessary to voyeur you...and especially as his wife....while you're alone and unsuspecting...I'd make double sure he doesn't have a camera or 8mm camcorder stashed away somewhere.
Bet he does. That is quite strange my dear. I suspect that you may turn up on the internet somewhere because I can't imagine any other reason why he finds it necessary to "peek" at you when a) you're nude and b) alone.
2007-06-12 06:34:20 · answer #5 · answered by Quasimodo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your husband needs to learn to appreciate what he has rather than being critical. Tell him if he was less critical of your body, you would show it to him more often and he would not have to sneak in on you.
2007-06-12 06:35:55 · answer #6 · answered by jimmy.parker06 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Explain Day or the Lord as Presented in 1 Peter.?
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2017-02-14 01:38:05 · answer #10 · answered by Bevvy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps he loves to look at your body. He did marry you. As for his comments, tell him if he keeps criticizing your body he won't be touching it.
2007-06-12 06:35:32 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋