Three months since i saw my ex. She had tears in her eyes and i wanted to stay maried to her.She divorced me.I senced a great deal of conflict within her. I know we shared a strong bond and comittment.But she says her head rules her heart and its what is best for her. I can't stop looking at the pictures,torturing myself.I want to hold her again and tell her everything will be allright,but shes gone now and im left with with memories and loss.I don't understand and look for answers.The way she looked at me,the way she loved me.And now its like it never happened,she never was.I hope she has a place for me in her heart.We wanted to grow old together.And i feel i will never be able to let her go.Its a empty sad feeling thinking the rest of your life is going to be this way.
2007-06-12 05:58:13 · 9 answers · asked by Rodger M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i think you need some counseling for depression . Please see a therapist and try to move on . I know it hurts and will for a while but you really do need a therapist . good luck .
2007-06-12 06:02:32 · answer #1 · answered by Kate T. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
been there and it is hard and it really stinks not knowing weather they still have feelings for you or not. torturing yourself with memories of what once was, it is so hard to just let go and try to make life work once again. You have to though, you just have to let all memories stay where they belong, on the pics. i am not saying forget completely but forget enough to where you can move on with your life and enough to leave the past in the past. The feeling will eventually go away. it wont be easy but it will... hope ya the best!!
2007-06-12 06:07:48 · answer #2 · answered by WhErE Do I BeGiN??? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aww, hun im sorry that is so hard.
just keep positive and know that it seems terrible now, but it will get better later.
if theres no chance yall get back together, id say try and move on, thats the best way to stop thinking about somebody, although it can be hard too soon.
just keep positive and try to remind urself of the postiive things
2007-06-12 06:02:29 · answer #3 · answered by ♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She said, "it's what is best for her".
That in itself is a very telling statement.
When you decide to pick yourself up and dust yourself off and move forward in a positive way in your life.
Be more selective in the type of women you'll allow yourself to get involved with.
Your EX doesn't care about Anybody but herself.
2007-06-12 11:45:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would a woman leave u if she loved you? she must of had some secrets shes not revealing to you.. you have to move on with your life... you cant bring back the past but learn from it and move on... maybe one day she will tell you.. maybe not who knows... time heals all wounds and you wont always feel emty and sad.... there is a time to mourn and a time to heal.... hope it gets better for you soon...
2007-06-12 06:08:27 · answer #5 · answered by gina B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey man, I feel for you. But you need to do something to get it out of your mind. Sounds to me like you never let out that big cry and yelling off your chest. I think you should get in your car drive somewhere and just let loose. Let out ALL your emotions. Get it out and then go entertain yourself. Go to the batting cages or something. Cut it out, let it go. Just make sure that you get that pain out your heart with a big cry if you have to.
2007-06-12 06:14:01 · answer #6 · answered by The Gooch 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
at least have a date with her again and laugh about all the good times you had and the other feelings you may have.... it should work out.... you won't know unless you at least try and know how she does feel inside.
2007-06-12 06:01:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wish i knew what to say, but sorry man im in the some boat.
2007-06-12 06:03:01 · answer #8 · answered by rejecttf 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is so sad and sweet. You need to tell her what you just wrote. seriously.
2007-06-12 06:03:25 · answer #9 · answered by giveu2tictacs 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋