everything went wrong, acouplebought it before,i go to see it, i was at my job and i regret not asking for permission to go and see it, i was planning to but i never expected that it was going to be rented, oh God i really wanted that apartment, convenience, good price in a nice environment, 24/7 security, is not about been a drama queen about it, but, have you ever experience a feeling of high energy towards something? Also it was my oportunity to be independent, i know it will pass but right know i feel that i let a great opportunity run away.
I feel weird and hoppeless about finding a place to be like that place, a peaceful and beautiful place where i could develop my inner spirit and freedom, can i feel the hope of having a next chance like this one or even better? am i being blind and close minded?
Please help, i dont want to feel dissapointed and sad anymore.
2007-06-12 05:14:37 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
I'm a "land lady", you can rent one of my houses.
2007-06-12 05:57:11 · answer #1 · answered by Cami 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Did you ever hear of Karma, maybe it was fate, you weren't suppose to get that apartment, now later on, God forbid suppose that place caught on fire, or was robbed, or the woman was attacked, then you would know that it was Karma, you weren't suppose to move into it at this time. Something will come along for you I'm sure, and may even be better then the one that you lost, you may not feel that right now because your so sad, but cheer up your turn will come. Haven't you ever wanted something and then it fell through and then later on something else came along and it was better than what you wanted initially.
2007-06-12 12:27:40 · answer #2 · answered by chessmaster1018 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I felt that way about a couple of good apartments too (and if you've ever apartment hunted in Philadelphia, you know it's not for the faint of heart).
But I got over it because there were so many other choices. And I know it sounds trite, but if you missed this one - I guarantee something better will come along.
Someone said the same thing to me and I didn't believe it. But I am absolutely in LOVE with the place I'm living in now. So cheer up, emo kid! I promise it'll get better. :)
2007-06-12 12:29:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear friend;
If this question pertains to us i think i can answer this. After this incident does your mind feel that your dream house has become a fantasy and not real ?? I will now tell you a solution for you to get a similar apartment.I will not advice you not to feel sad and forget it but i will tell something such that your wish is fulfilled.
Were u in an idea of purchasing that flat?? if so please work for it wait for some time and get some more money and build the house yourselves instead of approaching an apartment.
2007-06-12 14:23:15 · answer #4 · answered by Aravind S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know when you get your "hopes up", it's a real "crashing" feeling to be let down. I always try to remain what's called "cautiously optimistic" when it comes to things I want or think I need. I've had my little hopes "dashed" too many times. But...think of it the way I do...sure, you're disappointed, but you know, that just means something is going to come along even BETTER...and you will find yourself grateful that you didn't get the thing you thought you wanted. God may close a door, but ALWAYS opens another.
There is something even better out there for you...and when you are ready for it...it'll happen. You may not see that now...but I promise you, if you have faith, it will.
Remain positive...and draw positive things to you...(just as being negative will bring negative things to you)...
In my old hippy days (and even now, LOL!!!) I always say:'if you sow bad Karma, you're gonna reap bad Karma'...and visa-versa
2007-06-12 12:28:24 · answer #5 · answered by Toots 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
With no offense meant at all. it is a HUMAN condition to WANT,and in truth largely based on GREED. NEED however is as basic as air, water, sustenance,,,,period.
Perhaps since you ask this in the Philosophy category, and so many NON scientific systems direct our FEELINGS, you might equate this to Cosmic forces, even metaphorically.
The approach our species takes is most directed by WHAT I "WANT" as opposed to what I can tolerate, accept, enjoy, even through levels of compromise, endure,,,unless they truly DEGRADE one. IE: GOOD to me, in my perception, may not be to you.?
With no other offense please don't use or equate GOD with the situation, no matter Who your personal GOD may be. "HE/SHE" happens to get the majority of the BLAME foer what isn't "working" in our favor. Perhaps in a very UNIVERSAL sense your angst and the situation, may only be a message that something wasn't "Right"? AND at the same time to believe "THAT was the ONLY RIGHT" is pretty much a waste of mental and physical energy.
Dissapointment, no matter the GOOD or BAD we experience certainly can detour us,,,, even BLOCK us from motivations, but unless there are NO OTHER OPTIONS, then your motivation to continue exploration, should be exercised.
Steven Wolf
2007-06-12 12:30:10 · answer #6 · answered by DIY Doc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get over it - it is just an apartment. If something this trivial causes you this much grief you should seek counseling. Keep looking for other apartments and get on with your life. Jeesh....
2007-06-12 12:19:16 · answer #7 · answered by thinking-guru 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
don't limit the space the whole earth is there for living
2007-06-12 12:20:34 · answer #8 · answered by hari prasad 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋