how do i tell my parents i'm pregnat?

Question

im 14 and pregnant and i dont know how to tell my parent and they hate my boyfriends when he will be the father??

Answer 1

Well it's a little late to worry about their feelings; they are going to be supporting 2 babies soon, so you owe it to them to make it soon

Answer 2

First off, just let me say that my mother had me when she was 15 and my father was 18. So, I am the product of a situation like your's. Also, let me tell you that my mother and father went on to get a Master's Degree, so all hope is not lost because you are having a baby at such a young age. It will be hard, but you and your child will have such a unbelievable bond - trust me, I should know. I will also tell you (from the stories I've heard from my mother, father, and grandparents) that telling your parents is probably the hardest thing you will ever do, and yes, they are going to be disappointed; but you are their child, and they are going to love and support you regardless! I have an amazing relationship with both of my parents, as well as my grandparents. People are going to judge you, so that is something you need to get used to - but don't ever let them make you think that you made a mistake. You were irresponsible, yes, but you know what I've come to learn in my years - sh*t happens.
I don't know exactly how you should tell your parents, but you should do it soon. This is YOUR BABY, regardless of your age; YOUR CHILD - do not be embarrassed by it. Your parents may not be happy, but once they see that baby, their grandchild, their hearts will melt, so don't lose hope.

Answer 3

wow ok well it depends on what type of parents you have. if you have the kind that would be ok with it then itd be easier but what you could do is sit down with them in a place where your comfortable and explain to them how it happened not to detailed and explain how your boyfriend treats you which i hope is good and tell them that your pregnant and they might suggest marrige which many parents do and even though your only 14 but if you do decide to go through with the pregnancy which i do think is better because i dont believe in abortions. im only 14 to and ive been through this before and i thought my parents would kill me and they did except it and it was tough and many tears fell but i hope you and your baby and your boyfriend will be very happy!.

Answer 4

Oh for the love of pete. Girl you are in for a world of insanity. I need you to realize that before you set your parents down.

You need to first tell the father. Don't expect this to be a fairy tale. Then you both need to sit your parents down, either together or seperately and just say "mom, dad, I'm afraid I've let you down. I'm so sorry but, I'm pregnant". Expect anger, disbelief, your mom dragging you down to get another pregnancy test. Yelling, anger, tears. Expect it so you don't feel blind sided. I'm not saying that is exactly what will happen but, better prepared than not.

You need to figure out what you want to do. You have many options open to you. Adoption, Open Adoption (you see the baby, pictures, updates, etc.), abortion, and keeping this child. If you so choose to keep this baby you need prenatal care, you need to learn budgeting skills, you need to learn everything you can about babies and children.

Answer 5

Tell them in public. Then they cant totally freak. They might have to stop and take a breath but then they still shouldn't yell cause other people are around. This should give them time to think about it before they get you alone. Good luck. It's scary at first, emotions going out of control. But it will all eventually calm down.


One more thing. Tell your parents by your self. Don't break it to them with your boyfriend there. Especially if they already don't like him. But now they will have to learn to love them. Good luck once again.

Answer 6

See you are way to young to get pregnant why didnt you just wait until your older to have children? Anyway since its already been done legally you are still under your parents household so i suggest just one day when your parents seem in a pretty good mood with them tell them mom, dad i didnt mean to do this but i got pregnant and know your probably going to hate me now but please help me... if your really pregnant i suggest you have to tell them otherwise there gonna find out sooner or later because you cant hide a belly and if you dont tell them and they find out on there own they might be even more furious

Answer 7

There is no real good way of telling them. Just tell them you need to talk to them. If they get too heated about it, make sure you have a place where you can get away and let them think. But dont let them pressure you into an abortion, i am pro-choice, so i think the decision is all up to you. But think about it really hard first. Your only a child about to have a child, your parents would be your primary provider so think about them too. But this is no easy way around this, it is a hard decision and i wish you the best of luck on making your decison.

Answer 8

It´s never easy to tell your parents that you are pregnant at such a young age. I always found it easier to talk to my mother than my father, so maybe try talking to your mother alone.
Keep in mind that they are going to be very angry and disappointed, it´s going to be a huge shock to them and they might say nasty things but do not take it to heart. At the end of the day they love you and will help you to make the best decision.

Answer 9

Welll.....you MUST tell them sooner rather than later!! you dont want them to find out about it somewhere else....You can tell them the how you feel about it......like if you feel putting your baby up for adoption or if you feel you should keep it and give them mature reasons for whichever one you choose!! Well...if i were your parents I would hate your boyfriend too!! But I would also be mad at you for doing it first of all plus not using protection....but it is your resposiblilty to tell them straight up....dont beat around the bush, just come on out and tell them!

Answer 10

is your boyfriend ready to be a father?? If not he shouldn't have been having unprotected sex with you.did you tell your boyfriend yet or his parents for that matter??i would start with that order tell your boyfriend you are going to tell his parents.That will always be a hard conversation.are you planning on keeping it? If so then your parents will be supportive even if they are angry at first. tell your boyfriend that he needs to be ready to support your decision and to give whatever the baby needs

Answer 11

I agree w/ the other answers for the most part. You are just going to have to tell them. They will figure it out eventually. The sooner the better. And just why are you having sex at 14? It's way too soon sister.