missed period..??! please help..! m really scared..!?

Question

I'm an 18 year old female who isn't exactly sexually active..well, i have been physically intimate with my boyfriend but there was no actual penetration. The thing is I've always had irregular periods (once in two months or once in 40-50 days) . My last period was a little more than three months back..but i haven't had any pregnancy symptoms till now..sore breasts,nausea,stomach aches..nothing..! so I'm wondering if i am pregnant..please tell me that I'm not...

Answer 1

Okay, well here's the deal... since your periods are so irregular, it's very possible that this one is just late.

If your boyfriend didn't penetrate you, you're probably not pregnant. Is there any other way his sperm could have got up there? Did he rub on you with it? One woman wrote in a while back and was surprised that she got pregnant when all she did was masturbate with her boyfriend's semen (DUH!). I hope you didn't do that either??

With all this said, just take a test. I think even in your case enough time has passed and you would probably get an accurate result. Don't panic. I don't think you're pregnant, but I do think that finding out will make you feel better.

If the test is negative (and it probably will be) and your period doesn't start in another few weeks, go the doctor. Skipping a period for 3 or more months should be addressed. It could be a hormone imbalance (nothing major, but should still be addressed by a doctor). A hormone imbalance will also give you nausea, tender breasts, and other symptoms similar to pregnancy.

Good luck.

Answer 2

Ohmygod! This Is Like Deja Vu =| Exact Thing Happened With Me This Month. We Had Dry Sex, I Was Suposed To Be On 21-twenty fifth But I Wasnt. Fortunately I Came On 4th. Didnt Have Any Normal Period Symptoms Either But It Just Happened. If Youve Been On A Diet/ Eating Too Much Sugar/ Stressing About Something Happening (Or About Possible Pregnancy) Then Its Very Likely Your Period Will Be Delayed. I Wouldnt Worry, Honey Me And My Bf Decided We'd Buy A Test After two More Weeks But Luckily I Didnt Have To, And Im Sure You Wont Either. The Very Best Thing To Do Is (If You And Your Bf Are Close) To Tell Him What Your Worried About And See What He Says. Its Surprising How Much Better Youll Feel Once Youve Told Someone. Leave It Alittle While Longer And Then Take Action (Y) Good Luck. xx PS. Do NOT Wait For Your Tummy To Get Bigger. This Will Cause You To Panic Every Time You Look In The Mirror After You Have EATEN Something.

Answer 3

With no actual penetration, pregnancy is unlikely. Did any sperm get inside the body? You may have a reasonably good idea of that. If it was very close to the vaginal opening, it is still highly unlikely but possible.
Anyway, head on out to the drugstore and pick up a test. It only costs about ten bucks. Do the test in the morning with first urine. If negative, you can be totally relieved.
But in my opinion, you are very unlikely to be pregnant. Possibly it is only stress. You need to decide right now what you intend to do about your sexuality. Are you going to stop completely, or are you going to protect yourself???? The halfway thing clearly is not working.

Answer 4

The answer is simple. Buy a pregnancy test just in case. I need to get slightly graphic by saying this but, if your privates came in contact with his it is possible to get pregnant even if there is no penetration. But get a test! Whether or not the test is positive or negative, you need to see a doctor. If you are pregnant you need to get the proper care and if you are not, then your periods being irregular should be a good reason to get checked out for your safety. Good luck.

Answer 5

Sometimes when girls/women have irregular periods when they DO get their periods they can get all of these symptoms. Get a home pregnancy test and if it is negative go to your doctor and get on the pill. This will help prevent pregnancy, and it will also regulate your period. And YES, you CAN get pregnant without penetration. If he was close to your vagina sperm can actually work it's way inside you. There have been documented cases of this happening. There have been girls that were virgins that have gotten pregnant this way!

Answer 6

What do you mean by no actual penetration? You're 18 so I hope that you know by now how babies are made. Get a pregnancy test at your local drug store and find out. You could be stressing yourself out about not having a period. That will cause your period to be delayed.

Answer 7

Without penetration it is very unlikely but not impossible. The only way to really know is to take a test. On the other hand you really should see a Dr. even if you are not pregnant your body is not acting normal and you need it taken care of!

Answer 8

Hey woah slow down...everything is ok here haha....i'm going threw that right now...it happens to me alot....but the doctor told me it could be stress causing that...or the way i eat. You have those symptoms because you might have your period soon....somethimes i have all the symptoms of period and don't have it until a week or two weeks later. If your on the pill..then you should talk to your doctor.....because the pill should do it's work.... if your not sexually active i wouln't worry too much...

Answer 9

The only sure way to tell is to buy a pregancy test and use it. Being scared will make your body think you are having symptoms when you really are not. It's weird but it happens. I wont tell you that you are... and I wont tell you that you are not... the only way to tell is to take a test. I have been through this before.... take my advice and dont wait to long to take the test... take it now.

Answer 10

I'm sorry, but no one here can tell you if you're pregnant or not, hunnie. I would suggest going to your doctor to see exactly what's going on. If you're not really interested in that, pick up a pregnancy test at a drug store and see what it says.