I am on my schools dance team. We get called "dancing whores", plastic barbies. I know I should be affended by them but i kind of like getting called it. Im 13 is it bad? Am i stuck up? Am i really what they say? I hate that i let what people say about me get to me but i cant help it. please help!
2007-06-12 03:23:15 · 3 answers · asked by lets-dance-the-night-away 1 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Dancing
No matter what you do in life, there will be people who are not nice. They'll twist the meaning of what you do and say something bad. Their motives are various, like envy or insecurity, but the display is common - they bad mouth you.
Decide for yourself if dancing on the team is a good thing. Is it good for you? Is it good (or at least not harmful) for others? If you answered yes to both questions then you're fine.
2007-06-12 09:55:55 · answer #1 · answered by Snowflake 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You answered the question yourself. You said you liked getting called. BUt deep inside you also lke to be accepted or strong enough to brush any comment aside.
No, it's not right for anyone to call anyone anything. It's also not right to be someone who is real but an act.
Best way to find out who you are - get a chair and visualise each person who is calling you these names and then talk back. Get angry if you have to.
Then visualise yourself afterwards on that chair opposite you. Start talking and the true you will begin to unravel. Then from there, it is upto you who needs to change.
The first question to ask at the person sitting on that chair if your visualising yourself is....
"Why do you feel like that when people blaze at you? Come on! Tell me truth."
Watch and learn from the real you.
2007-06-12 03:49:38 · answer #2 · answered by Adam Taha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think whatever you want on the inside but don't let it show you don't want to be known as a person who likes to be abused/insulted.
2007-06-12 03:33:12 · answer #3 · answered by darkflower366 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋