my two best friends are fighting and one doesnt want me to hang out iwth the other...and theyre always like OH YOUR ON HER SIDE?! what do i do?!?!? ahhh
2007-06-12 03:14:32 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
tell them you are friends with both
2007-06-12 03:16:22 · answer #1 · answered by bowsgirl1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be there for both and make it plain that your on both sides. They will eventually get over whatever happened. Just be very careful and don't get caught in the middle, b/c most friendships can get ruined this way. Make it clear to both of your friends that you don't want to be caught in the middle, but you will be there for both of them. And if they refuse to hang out all together then respect that and make plans to spend time with each apart... but don't spend time with the other to talk about the other.... Friendships can be quite difficult when fighting is involved. But I will say the fighting will make friendships stronger as well.
2007-06-12 03:25:16 · answer #2 · answered by trish0247 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit them down, if you can get them in the same room. And tell them that they both have things that you like about them. You get along well with each one and it's not a bad thing. Then say that they don't have to worry about it when you hang out with the other one because you are a respectful friend and that they don't have to worry about you talking behind her back if she is worried about that.
2007-06-12 03:19:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anne Lynn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them to grow up and get over their silly argument. Just because the two of them can't get along right now doesn't mean they get to dictate what you do. Watch out though, these girls could just as easily turn on you too.
2007-06-12 03:18:00 · answer #4 · answered by kindofkitty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell them both that you are not on either side and you are friends with both and they need to keep you out of the middle if they want to be freinds with you.
2007-06-12 03:18:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay away from both of them and find a new friend to hang with, that will get them for sure!
2007-06-12 03:16:55 · answer #6 · answered by deb 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them to get over it and not to drag you into a babish fight like that and your friends with both and you can't choose between them. :D
2007-06-12 03:22:37 · answer #7 · answered by Angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
god i have τhaτ same pяoblem :S i saγ locκ τhem iи a яoom τogeτheя (oя a cupboaяd) aиd doи'τ leτ τhem ouτ τil τheγ pяomise τo geτ aloиg!
2007-06-12 03:21:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay away from both of them so they can settle their dispute without using you for a scapegoat.
2007-06-12 03:18:18 · answer #9 · answered by bin there dun that 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are really friends, they would not be asking you to do this and you should relay this to her. She has no authority to demand who you should be friends with. Sounds like a maturity issue to me.
2007-06-12 03:18:08 · answer #10 · answered by Midwest guy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sit them both down talk to them about their problems and say that you dont wanna deal with it becuase you dont wanna lose them and just say how much fun you had with them when you guys were friends...
2007-06-12 03:32:48 · answer #11 · answered by *;May May;* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋